Recently I have been witness to a phenomenon that has me baffled. On several occasions I have been out in public or on the job minding my business when a younger (not sure exactly the age) female between 18 and I dunno 24? has decided to flash me some skin while standing right next to their boyfriends. Look I have no delusions that any of these females are remotely interested in me. I am 37 with a gray beard and I don't exactly have a six pack. Anyhow let me set the stage for you...the other day I was parked outside of a fish store waiting for it to open at 12pm. It was really cold that day and I was on my cell phone talking to my mom with the window down and I could see my breath. Another vehicle pulls up and waits along side me for a bit and a young couple gets out. The girl was sort of laughing loudly when she got out and walked behind my truck, because of this we briefly made eye contact. The dude was quiet and kept his hood up and looked like he weighed 100 lbs. They both walk up to the sign and act like they are reading it and the girl steps away to the side and on this cold day she lifts up her hoodie and rests it on her hips which were punishingly sex and she had on low rider jeans as well...and she just holds it there letting me get a good look at her curves with her bare skin exposed to this cold ass air. She then looks back at me with this "I know you want it" look and her boyfriend starts looking uncomfortable because he doesn't know what I'm going to do and he is too small to do anything about it unless he has a gun. I'm not a jerk like that and I'm married so I went back to minding my business. It happened in a similar way at a college dorm not long ago as well and I was just walking behind the couple down the hallway for all of a few seconds and the girl looked back at me and then lifted her wife beater up and rolled down the top of her sweat pants and then stopped and shook her ass at me and then looked back and sort of laughed. This dude was not small, he was much taller than me and very athletic and that would have been an actual fight if something came of it and I'm honestly not sure how it would have turned out but he quickly suggested that they go back to his room and fuck in a voice loud enough for me to hear and she promptly followed him while continuing to smile at me. I have a few more that are along the same lines but I think you get what I'm saying. Is this a new trend to fuck with old guys minds like that? What the fuck is that about? Why are they creating a situation where I could A. be a jerk and make a sexual remark and see what they dude is gonna do about it, potentially emasculating him. Or B. put him on the defensive where he might give me some shit like "stop looking at my girl" or something like that? What is the point of this shit? Are they just getting off on the fact that guys like to look at them? Is that much of a show really necessary? If I were reading this I would wonder if maybe the OP was maybe gawking at them or something but I promise you I wasn't. If I was I would know what this was about and realize they were fucking with me for doing so. Honestly I don't get the purpose of this shit. Let me be bitches, If I can't have it then so be it. If I'm too old for your young pussy then keep it but leave me the fuck alone with your attempts to create drama.
I don't know. That is really strange, but I guess if they are really young, then maybe that's just something that some girls do. I was just reading/writing about it the other day how a lot of young girls, like late teens, early 20's, really only think of themselves as sexual objects. Every time a man is remotely near them they feel the pressure to be an object of desire, not necessarily like a stressful thing, they just get into that mode and "perform" so to speak. Also there is an age where women who are particularly fertile, who might also have a high sex drive feel constantly driven by their own sexuality. Women want to feel desired, some women, especially younger ones, especially during their most fertile times will go out of their way to feel like they are the center of attention. Think attention whores. Just my guess.
That makes far more sense than anything I could come up with. Each time it happened I was confused like the big dummy that I am and left feeling slightly manipulated somehow. Your perspective makes me feel less paranoid.
Sometimes a woman flirts with another man to make her boyfriend jealous – either to get him to pay more attention to her, or to even provoke a fight between the two men. (The latter is more likely in places like bars, though.) In some countries women like to flirt with men they are not at all attracted to, just to make fools out of them. At any rate, being 37 with a gray beard doesn't mean that 20 year old women couldn't find you attractive.
I have noticed that a lot of girls with boyfriends seem to flirt with me. And it really sucks. Why flirt with me if you have a boyfriend? I can always tell it makes their boyfriend uncomfortable and I try to sort of socially pass the girl back to her boyfriend cuz I feel bad for him. I've been on the opposite end of this too. Often I find if I am taking a girl out, she'll always try to make me feel jealous and get too close for comfort with another dude, obviously inappropriately. I think it's a way of telling shy guys that they want to be more dominated and they're hoping that you'll put an end to it, but it doesn't work very well because it just makes everybody feel awkward. idk what this move is either but idl it
