What is the ideal girth and how thick is too thick?

So if a guy already had the perfect length and knew how to use it, so everything else equal, what would you say the ideal girth is and how thick would he have to be so even when he's careful and you're aroused it still feels uncomfortable?

 

6-7” long and 4-5” girth I’d say

 

6-8 length, i've had 9 and it hurt when he went all in, girth 6-7 around is very nice, friend is 7 long and just shy of 7 around and he's so thick i cream very easily and its just at the point where he can really fuck me and i think any thicker would hurt. I've tried a variety of veggies and i have fit thicker in myself but to actually be fucked by bigger would be too much

 

so would you say the difference is big from 5 inches girth to about 6-6.5 inches girth?

 

7” is massive, bigger than most porn stars even.

are those actual measurements?

 

I think when you go above 5” and especially the 7” range as far as thickness that you get pleasure + fullness vs 5” and below where it’s more just pleasure and no fullness feeling. I imagine the fullness feeling to be something some seek.

I don’t have a vagina but do have experience from anal, dildos and cock and you can tell for sure.

 

but wouldn't there be more pleasure because the feeling is more intense?

 

Not necessarily. I think fullness feeling aside it’s more how you use it.

There are so many different angles and positions and speeds, basically you’d want to aim for each to be done with specific intent where your partner wants exactly that at each given moment.

A big thick dick won’t just feel better by default. I’m fact, it can hurt and be neutral or uncomfortable quicker than and average size or smaller.

 

yes, measured it myself cause it was just that big, i had to know.

5" to 6.5/7" girth huge difference like i don't think i could take much more

at first it hurt but i got used to it then it became very pleasurable, when its long and thick its like an overload of pleasure, as mike said theres a full feeling, then theres the girth pushing my limits, i find i cream WAY more with him than any other guy, then theres the length, i don't enjoy my cervix getting hammered but some contact takes things to the next level

Another thing i have noticed with long and thick is, when a guy of average size cums inside me i can't really feel it, when my friend goes all in and cums, i can feel it throbbing, i can feel the cum bursts and then the warm cum

 

there’s a guy I’m starting to fool around with. He’s got a thick 8” cock. Not sure the actual girth, I’ll have to measure it. I’m guessing about 6-7”, I’m 7” long and 6” girth and I think he’s got me beat slightly.

But I haven’t yet taken him inside me, only BJs up to this point. He’ll be my largest for sure, previous was 7” and I’d guess more in the 5” girth. Which felt great. He could hammer me as hard as he’d like and I loved it, although, to your point being hammered constantly deep isn’t the most pleasurable. It’s better when it’s intermittent and not as constant.

keep in mind my experience of course is anal vs vaginal, although In sensing some overlap in similarities. Tho I would never know for certain

I’ll have to do a little prep in order to handle this Jew guys cock, I’ve let him know he’s welcome to fuck me, just give me a heads up

 

Candcane1990 would be nice if you could snap a pic of your buddy and post it a nice cock is always nice to see haha

 

The thought that it's all about size is way off base. There is a lot to be said for "matching the parts". For example, my ex-husband had an odd bend in his penis and I had orgasms by riding him reverse cowgirl. My current husband does not have that bend but a more "traditional" bend and he gets me off in all sorts of positions but it never works for me in reverse cowgirl. My current husband has the largest cock that I've ever had inside me and that's nice, but the "matching of the parts" or "it's the way you use it" is much more important than size IMO. But to answer the ops question, I have a dildo that is 6.5 inches in girth and that thing is my limit. I have to lube and relax for that big boy.

 

I don’t think anyone is saying any size is better or worse.

what’s being said is that there’s a feeling of fullness that goes along with a dick with a larger girth.

there’s also a psychological element of being with a long thick dick.

How to people fit and their chemistry and how he knows how to use it play roles too for sure. So does the person receiving they play a role and factor in to each persons pleasure too of course.

 

but after you lube up and relax does it feel better than a thinner penis?

 

I think the short answer yes it can. I’m a guy, my experience is limited of course.

I will let some experienced ladies share their experiences too?

 

I think it depends on the woman. I've seen women use some pretty thick things. One girl had the John Holmes life like dildo, and that thing was huge. I would say bigger than he was in real. She worked it very slowly, and lots of lube.

 

most girls can take bigger but with lots of warmup . I was mostly asking about how it would be for everyday sex

 

I think mine has too much girth. I hardly ever get a deepthroat, turned down when i ask for anal. I think the girth of shaft of my penis (6.75”) is ideal. The head of my penis is too big.

 

Based on dildos she has used, my wife prefers a cock no more than two inches thick (6" in circumference), but she says any other thickness is fine with her.

 

Look at the difference in width when dividing the girth measurement as it were a circle. (I realize a cock head and shaft isn't round but you can get a perspective this way)

4" Girth is 1 1/4" across
5" Girth is a little more than 1 1/2" across
6" Girth is almost 2" across
7" Girth is 2 1/4" across

An inch difference between the 4" girth and 7" girth sliding into a vagina is a lot. Even a half inch or a fingers width makes a difference. None are generally ideal if the vagina can't handle the size being inserted. Either it's too much or not enough.