What is said to you to make you feel unloved

So we were lying in bed and the my wife says ‘ I think we need to have sex to get it out the way’. Admittedly I think it’s because she has been in abit of a rut recently but didn’t make me feel great.

What has been said to you to make you feel unloved/unwanted.

 

OK.......Lets Get It Over With......



Cheers Glen.

 

'Is it in yet?'...that's a joke...btw...

But seriously, actions are more upsetting than words usually. When you feel you are putting in more love, affection and time than a partner. That's a downer.

Have you tried asking your wife about any fantasies or anything you could do to make sex less of a 'chore' and more of a pleasure?

 

Rjm, post #3 - 100% dead on. I lived this very thing for some years, where I got NO love or interest shown to me by my wife. I felt non-existent. Soul crushing. I even told her I felt like a chore - and the last one at the bottom of her list. No response or attempt at changing the situation.

We're better now thankfully, but that physical & emotional suffering took a huge toll on me.

 

you can buy a cd on how to suck a dick?

 

I don't wanna cuddle

 

A CD with a sex movie on it.

That's an adorable post, Julie : )

 

And at the thread.. Too many to fucking count but usually in his bizarre way he's trying to say something nice.

 

You can buy a cd?

 

I'm sure you've experienced plenty of life in your time. And yes you have many years to experience plenty more : )

 

dvd, most likely.

hell, there's used cd stores even around here, where we don't have anything beyond the most basic necessities.

 

Complaining about a mild case of jock itch--, the lady said "well, wipe your ass and change you shorts once in a while and that'll help"! A real card, that one. First off, I change my shorts at least once a month whether I need to or not. So there!

 

That’s sad to hear. I don’t have the heart to let anyone go, unless they really deserve to be fired due to being a shitty employee

 

Not so much unloved but schools and jobs definitely made me feel like i wasn't good enough. I hated school, it felt like a prison. I remember being humiliated by both teachers and students. I know my parents were just doing their best. Before me and my parents realized i had A.D.D. my parents would scold me saying i wasn't doing my best when i was. After a while, i just gave up on myself during my school years. College was totally different. I enjoyed it and did much better in comparison. Though i didn't finish college. School can be a very rough place if you're a loner.

 

Nothing really. People can call and think of me how they want, deep down... No not even deep down... I just know I'm a decent person. Bit qwirky but qwirkyness never hurt nobody, I'm relatively harmless just all about a good time, good tunes and good convo with good people. That's my harmless life. they can try and take that away from me I dunno, will it hurt? Probably not. I can't see what or why my wife would say to hurt me, same as my family really.

I remember once my dad told me I'd never make anything of myself racing video games and that always annoyed me, probably because I thought it was true too at the time but now I'm the voice of a thriving European stock car league and my race team is sponsored with contractual agreements and pay.

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And I let him know that all the time haha. But if Video games is the only thing I can remember, then I'm all good with the family.

 

Ok having another go at this.
I've always been on the receiving end of abuse as a kid growing up.
I've been in foster care because of that.
I've also been adopted due to that.
Those of you who don't know what my natural mother was like actually act in the same manner as what she did, right up until she passed away last year.
There are those that know and like me and there are those that think bad things about me all the time.
Unfortunately this involves trust issues.
When i've lost my trust with somebody due to them constantly picking on me you will know it.
However, if you don't give a flying you know what then i can take that as an attitude issue you have.

I'm a mature lady who doesn't need to be bullied by arseholes.
I'm autistic and you are ignorant to the extreme.
The threats of being banned on here due to people's insecurities is a real problem and it is discriminatory as well.

 

when my kindness is taken for granted
feel alone
I believe people don't love each other enough
even couples been together for long time
sex is a mechanical connection between consenting persons
its not really the all binding character of love but it helps

 

"I hate you. Die."

 

I feel unappreciated or unloved when I am ignored or dismissed by others when I express my feelings or thoughts.