what is love?

Discussion in 'U.K.' started by Jaz Delorean, Jan 17, 2005.

  1. Jaz Delorean

    Jaz Delorean Senior Member

    ok i know this is really late and deep but it's never too early to start something on hipforums :p

    i've been thinking about love... real human love, between two humans.
    this is what i came up with:

    love is knowing somebody inside out, completely and utterly trusting in them, and also, being willing to die for them, without having to think about it. there's also this unexplainable, uncontrollable yearning to be with that person all the time, and if you can't, then it hurts. a lot.
    this is love? i think so.
     
  2. Jaz Delorean

    Jaz Delorean Senior Member

    yes...there is all that as well, sorry man i was reflecting on the more deeper bits for too long maybe there... ahh yeah... like, when you see someone and you just know...
     
  3. Jaz Delorean

    Jaz Delorean Senior Member

    and the most IMPORTANT thing in the world is that person, and NOTHING else matters... thats part of it too.
     
  4. Tamee

    Tamee naked

    um...love is life. true love, that is. that stuff you're talking about, I like to call infatuation.
     
  5. Jaz Delorean

    Jaz Delorean Senior Member

    thats a good word... :) - and besotted is, too :D
     
  6. Tamee

    Tamee naked

    well, love is energy. Life is made of energy=love. That explains why when you feel sincerely loved you feel much more energetic. Viewing the world that way makes me never feel alone or unloved. It's fuckin great. I feel good all the time, no matter what happens to me. I know that I am love, every single part of me. It's not just an emotion that I have every once in awhile. It is present in everything. It's just a matter of whether or not you are open to it which determines if you "feel" it or not. You have a connection of love to everything else in this world, although usually it's only when your door and that of another is opened toward each other that you feel the love intensely. Even if you don't feel it, it's always there. You don't have to wait for love, it waits for you. Some people don't understand this, but I do.
    teehee, what does "besotted" mean??
     
  7. Jaz Delorean

    Jaz Delorean Senior Member

    totally, completely take over with adoration and passion for that other person...
    thats what i use it for anyway...
     
  8. Tamee

    Tamee naked

    sounds good to me
     
  9. BlackGuardXIII

    BlackGuardXIII fera festiva

    Been there, and it is hard to explain, but that can happen overnight. It is very unimaginable when it happens, and for me, was far beyond what I could have fantasized about. Twin flames is the term I learned that describes it.
     
  10. Jaz Delorean

    Jaz Delorean Senior Member

    that is so cool
     
  11. BlackGuardXIII

    BlackGuardXIII fera festiva

    My Lucky 13
    .
    My tiny queen, my jellybean, my sweet and juicy tangerine,
    it's you I always hoped would someday come to me, Eileen
    I guarantee you'll see that I can be your fantasy.
    You've treated me so lovingly my spirit's been set free.
    .
    If I may say I love you each day 'til I pass away,
    It's safe to say it won't repay the love you sent my way.
    You'll know my goal is for our love to grow, cuz it'll show,
    You filled a hole within my soul & made my love flow.
    .
    My time, my friend, I intend to spend with you until the end.
    I'll defend you and attend to you, on that you can depend.
    My will won't bend, & the love I send to you is not pretend.
    I'll tend your wounds until they mend, my life & yours will blend.
    .
    I realize the love that lies in your eyes is my prize.
    My spirit flies to higher highs, and for your love it cries.
    I'll tell no lies, and won't disguise my love's true depth and size.
    The sound of your contented sighs implies where your love lies.
    .
    It's no surprise your love supplies the sunrise in my skies.
    My love defies those other guys who hope our passion dies.
    Instead our love intensifies, solidifies and multiplies.
    Please recognize I'm mesmerized, it's you I idolize.
    .
    BlackGuardXIII


    Friday 13th/02/04
     
  12. Peace-Phoenix

    Peace-Phoenix Senior Member

    I think love, alongside hate, is the most primal of human emotions, as though love and hate were the two primary colours, out of which all other emotions are mixed to form the human spirit. Unlike hate, though, it is the highest, and most selfless of feelings, yet can be as dangerous and destructive as hate too. But it is the most beautiful feeling in the world, and with it anything is possible, no feat seems too hard, and no distance too far....
     
  13. Ellie-Rose

    Ellie-Rose Le Muppet

    I think every said is right.. but i also think love is diferently for everyone!
    Also sometimes it can be mixed up with Lust alot... Say you were in love with a partner.. then later on down the years, you find someone else and experience a totally new love and it makes you realise.. did you actually love that other person or was it just lust.
    I've only just woken up.. so i may not even be saying the right stuff.. But I do believe love is diferent for everyone, but is pretty much based on all those things you all have said and much much more
     
  14. SelfControl

    SelfControl Boned.

    What is lvoe? Best not to ask.

    How do you know if you're in love? Imagine your future, something you're doing in the future which isn't directly connected to that person. Are they still there?

    If so, then yeah, you're in love. But never mind.
     
  15. Zonk

    Zonk Banned

    I think love is like getting a filling done at the dentist. While the anasthetic is working everything's fine and dandy and you hope to God the feeling will last.;)
     
  16. DoktorAtomik

    DoktorAtomik Closed For Business

    Love is when you've been living with someone for years, and they're still at the top of the list of people you'd like to have sex with ;)
     
  17. BlackGuardXIII

    BlackGuardXIII fera festiva

    A mother never shaking the hand of her child.
     
  18. DoktorAtomik

    DoktorAtomik Closed For Business

    Ooops. Forgot to add an important disclaimer. The above is only true if it applies to someone who is NOT A MEMBER OF YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY!!!! In that instance, it's not love, it's just wrong!!!!
     
  19. Zonk

    Zonk Banned

    I knew everyone in Norfolk where I live looks a little odd!
     
  20. Dandelion_Blood

    Dandelion_Blood Gremlin

    I think sometimes love is, without needing any explination, without showing any real example of why or how. It just is, i know its all chemical stuff blah blah. But, sometimes love is just... love with no reasons at all. You can find reasons for loving someone, but sometimes the reason of loving them is enough on its own.


    Love is... greeat.
    It can be dangerous too.
     

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