What is it you like about sex with people not your wife, husband, nor significant other?

My answer may seem a little boring but I like the learning of enjoying sex with new people; the feeling I get when I know I have given them pleasure and, also, the newness of their different less familiar noises and reactions to said pleasure.

One was 59 when I was 40. A platonic friends of about 4 yrs and one day, when in her house, my back cramped. She had done a course a few yrs earlier in massage and so, I removed my shirt and lay down on the floor so she could break up the knots in the muscle. I knew she hadn't had sex in years so cheekily I lowered my trousers so she could see part of my bum cheeks. She let out a noise, not of excitement but seemingly of oo-er, like she wasn't sure what was going to happen. Well nothing would if she didn't want it to (obs) but, as she let out that expression, I rolled over and I let my cock appear through my lowered zip. Summer time and I don;t wear underwear.

She reminded me she hadn't done it for years and wasn't sure so I told her it was up to her. She could do what ever she wanted, if she wanted. I began to stroke myself and was by now, hard. She stood up and moved to the sofa, lowering her jeans and she told me to fuck her now. "We can do more later but I want to feel you in me now", she said.

We did a lot together and one evening when we went to bed she was very wet. I don't usually cum easily/quickly when spooning and this time was no exception. I persevered with just gently sliding in and out and I wondered if I would cum at all because there was little to no friction, just like oldguynurse described. She felt amazing though as I held her close, from behind and her skin was so soft. I think it took about 20 minutes and she had cum a couple of times when I suddenly felt something was going to happen. It took a good few minutes from then actually to happen but it was one of the most beautiful and strong orgasm of my life, especially given that the feelings I was getting were so gentle throughout.

 

For me the biggest thrill was knowing I, and my wife, were breaking one of society's sacred rules. It was being able to move among friends and work colleagues knowing that i had done something most of them would be appalled, or at the least highly surprised, at. My wife was the same, she got a real thrill from having her secret life and her friends not knowing just how slutty she was in real life.
Of course, a new body to play with, a different personality and outlook to interact with were all exciting and highly addictive as well.

 

In our case it worked out, I was her first and she wanted to experience others. I was fine with meeting other couples, and we added a few singles to the bedroom.. After several years of playing with others, She always said our first mfm threesome was her best night ever.

 

I think the sharing of exquisite feelings with another person is beautiful . You both get to experience something new or different from what you're used to and it's a beautiful thing not to mention a major thrill for both .

 

How do I get in touch with you? Is there a way to privately message you?

 

I loved being with a different woman from time to time. As my girlfriend loved experiencing different men. Women have the advantage. over men. Plus I know a few women who had sexless marriages. Or at least unfulfilling relationships. Some of the men didn't care, and loved hearing the stories.