What is considered cheating

Here’s what happened
We’re at a wedding and the wife is leaving to go back to our room. I stay to finish my beer and say bye to old friends. I was heading back to our hotel room when one of my wife’s friends asked me to wait up and walk her to her room. Both my wife and this woman are hot as hell. I’m drunk and her friend says she’s had a crush on me since the first time we met. There was a moment and then a small kiss. I pulled away and said I had to go.
Was it cheating?

 

Nah, I would say it was a little slip-up, but not cheating.

 

Definitely not.

 

Because you didn't return the kiss in a passionate way then no. The safest way in that situation is to kiss them on the cheek .However just be mindful of emotional affairs whereby deep down you really have feelings for someone but don't express them outwardly . But deep down you think of this person more times a day than your OH. .This is normally with a friend. This is regarded as cheating even though no sexual contact has been made and is difficult to prove.

 

Not, but I know the next time I was masturbating she'd be on my mind.

 

If you have to ask and you won't tell your spouse, yes it's cheating. Tell your spouse and get rid of the guilt.

 

Don't ask me; ask your spouse. The fact that you're asking the question at all is highly suggestive.

 

The way I see it, no matter what you're doing, if you have to hide it or keep it secret from your partner it is cheating.

 

That is not cheating. If you call her and ask her out to have sex with her in secret and then you feel guilt and do not do it...that is not cheating either.

 

All good weddings, need to end up with an even better punch up.

 

Cheating is anything you have to lie or hide from someone. Lieing is the only thing I can never forgive

 

You did well to control yourself, no way is that cheating.

I spent 20 years as a wedding photographer, real cheating is when the couple get married and at the reception everyone's happy and it's time for the speeches, first parents get up and tell everyone how wonderful the wedding is, lastly it's the groom's turn, starts off telling everyone how beautiful his wife looks, then tells everybody how pleased he was that his best man and wife had a nice evening of sex the night before, he then walked out, of course the wedding licence was torn up.

That my friend is cheating not a non existent kiss, get over it and enjoy life.

 

If you only makeout for five minutes or less you’re good.

 

I don't think so!
I have written several blogs about our past experiences and I think that if your husband/wife knows what is going on then it shouldn't be considered Cheating.
Read my blog, I did it for me!