What Impels You To Help A Stranger?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by thefutureawaits, Dec 28, 2016.

  1. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    Asmo: rude.


    I don't usually help homeless people. I rarely have anything to give them, and I don't think anything I could spare from my bag would be of much help. I saw an article online about making small "essentials" bags to hand out to the homeless, including what would be useful to them and what would not. I found that idea intriguing, but haven't taken any action to do so.
     
  2. Asmodean

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    Uhm it was sarcasm.

    Like i care if someone made the mistake of taking a cat instead of a dog ;)
     
  3. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Well see if I'm in need there's a chance at least that a dog will help me.

    A cat? No chance.
     
  4. Asmodean

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    Preaching to the choir here, baby! We all know it. But we can't say it... damn PC police. There's a whole species that is being antisocial and we are shunned simply for stating the truth.
     
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  5. autophobe2e

    autophobe2e Senior Member

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    Yeah I'm pretty sure you'd never see a cat with a homeless person, they aren't known for their loyalty.

    Now that winter's upon us I've bought a 40 pair bulk pack of hand warmers to give out to homeless people, seemed a good idea.
     
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  6. Meliai

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    Impel isnt a word you see very often
     
  7. VerySexual

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    Impellers are similar to propellers and are usually found in a pump of some sort. I think the OP was thinking of the word compel...that which makes one do something.

    This is an axiom: No good deed goes unpunished. Repeat, No good deed goes unpunished!

    I find myself wondering just what misfortune is about to befall me when I do a good deed.

    What compels me to do good deeeds? Greatfulness. Being greatful for what I have and for how life is going. Even a part time job is more than no job at all. The full time job being a greater blessing. I listen to my gut. There are times when I pass on helping strangers as there are sometimes a greater risk than what is immediately seen. It's situational for me.

    A lady who reminded me of my mother once asked me to change her flat tire in a mall parking lot...I did it. Hungry people have asked me for food...I have provided. A lost young man on a very dark road once asked me how to get back to civilization...I led him home (that was scary as the initial contact could have been a car jacking/robbery). I have driven injured people to safety. Hi Yo Silver! Away!!!

    Silence of the Lambs...can you help me get this couch into my van? Be careful, very careful!
     
  8. thefutureawaits

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    No. My intention was to use the word impel, not compel. It's use is correct. Compel would work to if a person wanted to use it.
     
  9. Asmodean

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    I have the feeling OP ment to write impale.
     
  10. mallyboppa

    mallyboppa Senior Member

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    Yeah i googled it and it does fit :scholar: I thought myself that you meant to say Compel :unsure:
     
  11. Asmodean

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    Vlad the compeller.
     
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  12. autophobe2e

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    The power of Christ impels you!
     
  13. Asmodean

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    Now that's an impaling power.
     
  14. Vanilla Gorilla

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    I have to admit I only give money to people on the street if they are aboriginal


    Everyone else, get a job ya bum, this is Australia


    Plus I bet, and you'll notice they are mostly guys, most of the time, if you knew their back story, how did they get there, how did they get abandoned by their family: wife beater, selfish drunk, kiddy fiddler even, you wouldnt give them money
     
  15. Meliai

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    What impels you to impale a stranger?
     
  16. autophobe2e

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    what estranges you to imply a helper?
     
  17. thefutureawaits

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    Depends on the implement needed
     
  18. SpacemanSpiff

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    my mood

    sometimes i stop and help...sometimes i laugh and keep going
     
  19. Amethyst87F

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    I think what motivates me to help a stranger is if I'm in a good mood and in a position to do some giving.
     
  20. Deidre

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    If I have money on me to help a stranger, I do. Sadly, I think it's easier sometimes to help a stranger, than say it is to forgive someone close to you, in your family or a friend. Helping strangers seems to come a lot easier for most people.
     

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