I've always been str8 but I really wanna try giving another guy head. My career would freak out if they found out. What to do?
If I had a dollar for every time I've personally heard a guy ask about someone finding out, I'd have a lot of money...
Find somewhere you are a stranger, unknown, and meet someone who you chatted with. And just do it, don’t live thinking “I let my chance pass me by, I should have done it.”
I've hooked up with many married guys for mutual oral sex and I recall a few of them saying "Nobody can find out what we are doing". For almost 12 years I was a discreet cock sucker behind my first wife's back, I certainly didn't want to be "outed" for what I was doing and never discussed the matters with anyone. I had a few close calls where she came home while I was sucking a guy off downstairs in the family room. He quickly put his pants back on as I walked upstairs to intervene before she physically interrupted us. Every time she had forgotten something and left in a couple minutes so then I returned downstairs to finish what I started.
I'm sucking cock in a couple of days after a long period. I have a tracking app on my phone so I'll be sure to turn it off, and the phone. I'm going to club X with two new bi friends and only my sexless wife knows. I'm keeping it that way.
Unless you proudly proclaim that you finally sucked someone off, out loud that is, who's going to know. Go searching, keep it safe, and have fun.
I can't begin to really tell you how many newbies I've sucked off in my life; what I do know is that all of them were worried about someone finding out and... no one they didn't want to know ever found out, like a wife or girlfriend (the biggest concern). Many wouldn't even tell their best friend and telling co-workers is... ridiculous. The guys who get busted are the ones who are either (a) careless or (b) just unlucky.
My wife knows every time which up to now has been a drought for 13 years. Other friends never have a clue. If I have a cock sucking friend, my regular friends and family will never have a clue we suck and play.
I've sucked first timers off that felt the very same way. I went down on them and afterwards I cannot tell you how many guys have said "that was the best blow job I ever had". Yeah, because I'm another guy that knows how to suck a cock to provide the ultimate pleasure that reaches an orgasm that is swallowed as it should be to complete that ultimate blowjob.
There's not many people who are gonna say that they had sex with so and so if the sex is of a taboo nature. The only way to be found out about is to be caught with your pants down and your cock sucker with the goods in hand.
Thousands of other married men have been in the same boat. The thoughts of sucking another man's cock can become overwhelming to the point of obsession. Then, out of the blue the situation to do so is made possible and 99% of the time guys wished they had done so long before that as the experience was far more enjoyable than they ever expected. Women think they are able to control their man because traditionally only women are expected to suck dick, until they deprive that man of his needs. So many women within long term marriages to men have driven their men to suck another man's dick or get his dick sucked by another man through neglect. I'm living proof and honestly, I'm glad it took place for me because if not for that neglect I would have never experienced the joy provided by sucking another man's cock.
