I gave it a try with two old and trusted friends( with my wifes encouragement). Both are gone now. I'll admit that sucking and fucking was fun and exciting. My wife has picked up the slack with her strapon and various dildos but that is wearing thin. She asked me if there was anyone else that I was close with at the senior center that I might consider. I told her that I just don't like other guys like that. What I did in the past was more of a fluke, where the situation and pieces fell together. I enjoyed the experiences, which filled a sexual void. When it comes to thinking about sex with someone, there are several women that would fit the bill but that's off limits. I wouldn't even think about messing around with any of these old farts, which I am one myself. Have any other seniors dealt with these feelings and gotten past this hurdle?
That's an interesting problem, @topper I don't have that problem. Mine is the opposite. I have very little attraction to women anymore. I still recognize a beautiful woman when I see her, but I am not driven to seek it out. I find a variety of men very appealing, and I enjoy being with a man. Sometimes, I think I am too much this way and should find another hobby. I guess - you have to figure out what you are looking for and be happy with what you discover. Be patient with yourself
