What Have You Done To Initiate Sex With A Partner

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by nz male, May 14, 2013.

  1. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    One day while alone at home with my with wife, I had pre planned earlier that day that I were going to try & get her to have sex but I wanted to surprise her while she was pre occupied doing housework.
    So while she was doing some housework inside & in front of me, I went up behind her & removed all my clothing. I didn't know if I were going to get a positive or negative reaction. Have you done this before or what do you do to get sex with your partner or previous ones.

    My idea of the word initiate, is to either do something that shows you want to have sex or they do something that makes you think they are hinting at wanting it but they don't actually need to ask for it but show you they are feeling horny or in another way?
     
  2. Lodog

    Lodog ¿

    My girl got home from work, and I had a little note on the table that read

    You are cordially invited for 10-20 minutes of fun
    When?: After you read this
    Where?: The bedroom, but be prepared to move to a different room if the cat starts staring at us
    What should I bring?: Yourself and maybe a friend if she's hot

    We hope to see you soon! :)
     
  3. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    Nice idea with the note being left for her. But did your idea work ?
    I usually just after we use to get into bed, put my hands on different parts of her body & hope she consented. Sometimes it worked other times she had reasons she didn't want sex. All that increasing build up of an erection beforehand & plenty of urge for sex I had & then it was turned down & disappointment afterwards. Sometimes you win , sometimes you loose.
     
  4. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    Sometimes I tried to find other ways to let her know or see I wanted sex. Some worked
     
  5. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

    I'm both very lazy and very aggressive. You may get the picture.
    But, yeah, the unzip and let it hang out is a classic. :biggrin:
     
  6. Lodog

    Lodog ¿

    Oh yeah it worked. She didn't bring a hot friend... but I digress.

    It's trying new things man. Sometimes it even works to pretend you don't want it. My libido is slowing down though and hers is going up or something and I'm having the exact opposite problem you got man. Plus it's tough with a kid around also finding time between work. ugh
     
  7. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Staff Member Super Moderator

    Lowdog, sounds like she's a sport with a sense of humor.

    I'd laugh, tell the note writer (s)he was naughty and needed to be spanked.
     
  8. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

    tried not to wake'er up

    worked a few times
     
  9. abigail92

    abigail92 Guest

    That was an awesome and brilliant idea!
     
  10. abigail92

    abigail92 Guest

    He would gently kiss me and hugs me from behind. Whispering: Are you ready?
     
  11. kokujin

    kokujin Senior Member

    I manned my last relationship correctly. Wouldn't even ask for sex. Give her a sexy make out or kiss during breakfast or something and damn sure she'll wanna get it on by night. Muhahs.
     
  12. dandelionlynn

    dandelionlynn Member

    I made a heart shaped suggestion box for my ex's birthday present when we were still together, so he could write all his kinky fantasies on little pieces of paper and I made them come true later on :)
     
  13. lively_girl

    lively_girl Member

    That is so cute :) It definitely works.

    Cherea:
    If someone did that to me and was serious about it, I would laugh in their face. Not sexy at all, a great parody though.
     

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