Were you always bi/gay or were/are you married and had a situation develop that brought you to sucking cock. Years ago wife & I agreed if she would try it with another woman, I would have to try it with a guy. Long story short, she tried it and haunted me for years to try it. My needs were stronger than my inhibitions and I did it with our friend. My wife was disappointed that I didn't suck him after he sucked me. That was because he came when I came in his mouth. Since I really didn't keep to my end of the bargin, she wanted me to do it again but this time I had to suck his cock and She wanted to watch. With that bidge crossed it was not such a big deal, in fact it was fun and easy. She enjoys watching whenever she could and has watched me several times. I got into it more because I was happy to give a bj, if I was getting a bj. It was absolutely No Big Deal anymore. If it wasn't for our silly agreement, I'd never know the pleasure.
I had the curiosity for it for many years. Then it kicked into overdrive when my wife went into menopause. Once I tried it, it seemed there was no turning back. The first time a made a guy cum in my mouth I was hooked. And me cumming in a guys mouth was the icing on the cake.
My wife was off sex, medical reasons along with no hormone treatment. She agreed to let me fool around for my health and state of mind. Women were a flop, largely. I tried pulling with a friend then cock sucking and it was really different. Raw lust, hard cocks, but no mind games.The wife agreed it was OK so I did it and enjoyed it.
For as long as I can remember I my heart would flutter when looking at photos of mature men. When I first started watching heterosexual blowjob porn I wondered why I would ejaculate thinking about being in the woman’s position, sucking the cock. Out of curiosity, I had a “man2man” massage and enjoyed it so much I had many more. On one occasion, the masseur offered to let me suck his cock. Nervously, I did and immediately got erect.
My wife had same situations. She suggested doing it with our old gay friend, who was just as lonely, sexually. Other women were not allowed, so I finally opted for a well desired blow job. She wanted to know the details but was disappointed that I didn't return the favor,( because he came while sucking me) she wanted a rematch. When we got together again, my wife was present and I did it while she watched. This time it was very thrilling. I wanted to be good at it and be able to impress my wife as well. I checked all the boxes and gave him a great bj while my wife sat on the end of seat, watching,
My first experience was with two friends in high school. It was weekend circle jerks only. We did though one time decided to jerk each other and try oral. Wasn't much to it all except a curiosity thing. Never went further but I never forgot it. Thought maybe one day I'd hopefully get opportunity again some day. 50 plus years later with a nudist friend, sitting nude in my garage, things triggered curiosity again and I encouraged him to jerk off. I soon after. Things progressed through time.
In the services when I was in my early 20's, a friend used to put out come-on signals around me. He and I shared a double room. He'd often be just pulling up His pants when I came in. He'd have a hard-on bulge in His pants sometimes. We went to a movie and had coffee after. He was sucking on a bread stick looking at me as I squirmed uncomfortably. He and I drove around to interesting places on days off. Once I was so horny I had a hard-on, talking about women etc. I had shorts on and it stretched down my leg and I rubbed it a little, and felt the tip up my shorts leg. He saw and had a raging hard on which he rubbed while he was driving. We were afraid of anyone finding out so we never progressed to getting off together. There was a real stigma against same sex attraction in the military. There probably still is, in the ranks, albeit unofficially.
I would like to find another bi suck buddy with his own place. I hesitate to get into anal. That is a turn off for most contacts. I did have a gay friend who I'd visit every month or so. We sucked and pulled every which way. It was going to plan but deep down He of course always wanted a dick in him. I was teasing His anus and butt with the head of my cock one time, and he changed position, and the head of my cock went up his very open, lubed ass. From there I shafted His ass every time after we'd had our fill of sucking each other off. He was very hygienic, tested regularly, and usually wanted it bareback, so it was risky. He moved to a different state and that's the last time I've been with a guy. 11 years ago. It's just that I promised my wife I wouldn't proceed to anal with Him, for purely health reasons and it was getting out of hand.
Lack of sex from the wife at the time so I let a few gay guys give me at the time the best blowjobs I'd had to date. Then I asked one of the guys "What's it feel like having my cock in your mouth"? He said, "I can't explain it in words" so he stood up, dropped his pants and out flopped his 7" flaccid cock two inches from my face and said, "Put mine in your mouth and you'll know what it's like". I loved it, I had a very enjoyable 40 minutes sucking in his cock and have been hooked on cock ever since. That was 30 years ago.
My first was with a guy I worked with. He was gay. We were in a project together spending many hour on it together. We went for drink one night after a long day. I had gotten pretty comfortable around him so when our conversation turned to sex I wasn’t too squirmish. Liquid courage and hot talk found me getting my cock sucked by him. Short time later I’m sucking him. I was married at the time but he and I continued our secret relationship for a few years. I started out my bi life on pure chance or luck depending on how you look at it. One of the best things that has happened in my life and I never turned back. Also never felt guilty. I enjoyed all of it. Still do
I was purely hetero but I really got into intense orgasms and I was always searching on how to make them more powerful. Of course trying to get my cock in my mouth then I heard about the prostate so I spent a lot of time searching for that damn thing. Turns out my hole is super sensitive and one day as I had my legs over my head masturbating with a dildo furiously fucking my ass swallowing my cum it was just a natural progression I might like the real thing.
From the time I was old enough to understand what sex was I have been sucking cock. Growing up in a very rural area my friends and I had to make our own fun. You might say we experimented with each other as we grew into our teens. We had a fort in the woods that we would commonly camp out on weekends and look at our daddies hustler magazines. I sucked my 1st cock at 13, swallowed my 1st load at 15 and was fucked at age 17. All by the same kid. To this day although not as frequent we still after 45 yrs still get naked and play when we can. Except now he enjoys my cock in his ass. That is why I am Bi to this day, I get off seeing the pleasure I bring others.
I was twenty and very inexperienced when I got involved with my first serious girlfriend. She was the same age but very experienced and kinky. After a couple threesomes with women she suggested a male friend of hers. I gave into the idea, fearing I might lose her. After we shared her spit roasted her, she began directing the action. I found myself giving into touching his cock, and he stroked me. Before I knew what was happening I had his cock in my mouth. Took me quite a long time to accept and admit to myself that I liked it. What an adventure!
The first experience that was more than self pleasure happened in the military. Back then Chat rooms were popular and I came across another guy across base and we chatted for awhile. He was a tall black guy, I’m a tall white guy who wanted to feel that insertion. We agreed to meet up and get a hotel room off base for privacy. I remember him pulling his pants down and he was already getting nice and hard. I took his cock into my hand and began to stroke it then opened my mouth and started to slowly stroke it in and out. He ran his hand down my back and into my boxers and ran a finger between my cheeks. It drove me nuts. His cock got rock hard and had a upward curve to it and it swayed slapping me in the face as I got up to take my clothes off and turn around. I bent over on all fours on the bed as he stood and pushed my ass into position with his left hand while guiding his cock to my hole with his right. He held the tip there and told me to relax and push my ass muscle out as he slowly inserted his cock….. I gasped and felt a strong pressure pain but it started to feel like I was being taken deep and his cock hit my prostate and I moaned….. it lasted only a few strokes before I came an insane amount…..
I'm very similar to you. I've always been bisexual. Unfortunately, my wife isn't really cool with it unless she's also involved in the action. Her boyfriend however claims to be "straight" even though her and I both know he's had sex with a mutual gay friend of theirs multiple times. "Straight" guys don't have gay sex, so who knows, maybe some of my wife's and my fantasies will come true
I was sedeced by a man when I was 22 years old. Simply put, it was amazing. Two weeks later I started having sex with a woman. I've been pan sexual ever since. No regrets at all.
That's interesting that you say pansexual. In reality, I'm pansexual too as I'm attracted to women, men and transgender women also. It's much easier to say I'm bisexual though as many people don't understand the term pansexual