These days for me it is when my wife talks about and gets into her feelings about a certain food network star who happens to be a woman. Talk about light my fire. WOW. I imagine them licking but she is talking about an emotional connection. Either way for me it is seeing and feeling her satisfaction.
I initiate sex with my wife probably 95% of the time. When my wife gives me that look and says that she’s horny and she needs it, well, the clothes can’t come off fast enough. I love it when a woman honestly says she not only wants sex, she needs sex.
When my husband sends me a sexy text when we're in the middle of our workday. It will be hours before we see each other, sometimes. Anticipation is hawt.