What first attracts you to someone?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by iriegnome, Nov 7, 2007.

  1. lily120

    lily120 Member

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    Um. I just realized something.
    I like noses.
    Big noses. Oh baby.
     
  2. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    I'm attracted to eyes, ears, lips and hands for some odd reason...
     
  3. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Dammit, why is there no "all of the above" option?:)
     
  4. knotdirty

    knotdirty Over the Rainbow

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    mmm, I like big strong hands. And nice lips. And eyes.

    Mostly though it's about proportion...
     
  5. fricknfrack

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    Eyes.. I love eyes. I always loved blonde hair blue eyed boyz. Ever since i was a teen i was drawn to them. Married one;-)


    I on the other hand have black hair and green ble yellow cat eyes.
     
  6. A Wise Monkey

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    For me it would be her presence. The way she carries herself and interacts with those around her that initally attracts me. If she is full of light and magnetic there is a likelihood that I too will be drawn to her, if she carries herself like she is doing the world a favor by allowing them to look upon her then I am repelled.
     
  7. theAndrew

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    4 things in this exact particular order.

    Face, that includes shape, eyes, lips, nose, etc.
    Ass
    Boobs
    Weight
     
  8. CasieNmynameisjake07

    CasieNmynameisjake07 Member

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    I dont need to look at people anymore because ive already found someone. Everything about jake makes me attracted to him.
     
  9. mynameisjake07

    mynameisjake07 Banned

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    My baby's eyes and large breastesis attract me
     
  10. slave

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    the soul of the person and the person's mind
     
  11. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    I said other. Usually it's aura. Personality. Whatever. I'm attracted to overall aura of a person.

    A physical trait, I would have to say the eyes.
     
  12. dreamingofTheo

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    The soul, and a persons` mind is what counts the most. My guys` mind and soul, is what attracted me to him first, we spent alot of time talking on-line before I got to see him.

    When two souls come together, and they can "sing" - peace of mind and heart, is so beautiful, so comforting. So is true love.
     
  13. mynameisjake07

    mynameisjake07 Banned

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    I didnt know glowing aura's excisted....
     
  14. madlizard

    madlizard Senior Member

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    PERSONALITY: intellegence, depth, dominance, sweetness, a bit of dominance, strength, masculinity.
    APPEARANCE: freckles are a huge turn-on, dark hair, shapely lips, scars, thick eyebrows.
     
  15. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Free

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    I think I already posted here but I'm posting again.

    Personality: Funny, down to earth, kindhearted, friendly, compassionate, tough

    Looks:

    guys: i like both short and long hair, deep soulful eyes, and a nice smile

    girls: hmm, same! ^^
     
  16. Love Fest1969

    Love Fest1969 Classic Rocker

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    Eyes, lips & hair
     
  17. Adgreyga

    Adgreyga Member

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    the eyes, the eyes and the eyes....lol then i check out posture and how he cares himself all the way around
     
  18. lindseybug

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    i look at a person as a whole. physically. good body structure. nice face. nice walk. how they carry themselves. and of course personality makes it all work
     
  19. myself

    myself just me

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    I'd say it's the person's whole looks, if all those parts make up a good combination... also, personality counts a lot.
     
  20. flaming_pie

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    For me, I'd have to say the person's aura itself. There has to be something that initially attracts you to someone. It's almost as if they have a sort of "air" about them.

    But second to that...looks don't hurt either, hehe :blush:
     

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