What does it feel like for a women to have an ORGASM ?

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Nothing a good orgasm wouldn't fix, and put a smile on here dial.

She's lost that loving "feeling" !

 

actually, it wasn't me i was thinking of. i'm fine with my orgasms, thank you very much. enjoy them immensely, in fact. i do tend to avoid men who subject them to a rating system though. :tongue:

 

Well in this case your not avoiding men that rate orgasms.

 

OK ! So do we have any new women that can describe their orgasms - please !

 

What happens with your breathing ?
a moment before it stops completely, and then like as i orgasm i breathe again

What happens with your heart rate ?
speeds up like crazy, and again for the moment i stop breathing it feels like my heart stops too (though i doubt it does)

What happens before, during and after you have had and orgasm ?
before, everything just feels really good and then it feels like pressure is building up
during, its like complete bliss, i can feel it throughout my entire body and i cant move, see, hear, or think
after, im exhausted. when im alone or after sex is done i like to just lay there and listen and feel my heart pound throughout my body and i like to just focus on that until it returns to normal

How can I tell if she is telling the truth ?
you cant.

What happens to the vagina when a women has a orgasm ?
im not sure, some women it tightens, i think mine does. idk.

 

Wow ! What a lovely suprise this is !

Firstly - thanks for sharing this with us, and I'm was just on line and thought I would quickly check the mail etc, then I thought I might just pop in and see if there had been any new posts - and what a gem this is !!!

I think from what you have told me that you have had the real thing !

One of the things I'm really interested to know is what happens whilst one is having the orgasm, for me it was probably one of life great mysteries, I remember feeling my partners vaginna grip my penis as it spasmodically contracted, the pleasure was more than I could handle and it catapulted me into this strange state where I cannot remember anything, I have no idea how long I was in that state, this may sound strange but that was exactly what happened, it was only when I regained consciousness that it was suddenly so quiet and peaceful, and the feeling or euphoria was quite amazing. Like I said in my expalnation it was like a wild storm and then complete quiet and we just lay there staring into each others eyes - my mind was wondering what had just happened, and then the realisation that it was morning and some how hours had passed ?

Do you think you blacked out or went unconscious ?

Can you describe how you felt and what happened whilst you were orgasming ?

Or was it the same for you ?

I could swear I felt this strange fusion of our souls, I guess this sounds ridiculous but really that is what it was like.

 

Do you think you blacked out or went unconscious ?
maybe a black out, maybe unconsciousness, but the poetic side of me likes to think i transcend into a place outside of the body, a place of pure spirit that to a simple human is shear euphoria.

Can you describe how you felt and what happened whilst you were orgasming ?
i dont really know what happens, i can never remember the exact moment. its like a dream, a wonderful dream you have a lot but always forget, so you sleep just to remember it. it is the greatest feeling in the world, i do know that.


I could swear I felt this strange fusion of our souls, I guess this sounds ridiculous but really that is what it was like.
maybe in the point of ecstasy i described with pure spirit, both yours and hers intertwine. after all, in a world of spirit everything is one, and everything is at peace.

 

From her orgasm until I woke up I have no recollection ?

At the threshold of her orgasm I remember her motioning for me to enter her, (she was on top) so i entered her and it was long till I could feel this pressure around my penis and like I have said it really freaked me out, I could hear myself thinking I'm just going to go with this and not worry about the initial fear I had, as the pressure increased ( I was at this stage thrusting in and out of her) I just couldn't help what was about to happen (ejaculation) imagine me with "lovers balls" I'm highly aroused and then suddenly I let loose - OMG the feeling just shot up my spine like a ball of energy i was writhing like a girl from that point on i can only remember thinking about my penis inside of her and instead of feeling like me as one I felted connected and fused together in this amazing and incredible bond all the feelings of inhibitedness fell away, In my mind nothing mattered just me and her.

Its a feeling of absolute intimacy, love, euphoria, I don't think I have ever felt so relaxed and totally fulfilled.

And it was so quiet afterwards, nothing except total peace and tranquilty.

Then I could hear the birds chirping in the trees and I knew the sun was about to rise on yet another day.

 

Ok so anymore lovely stories of that ultimate state of sexual arousal ?

 

Come on girls ....

Damn maybe I'm sexpecting too much ?

 

well from what happens to me all i can say fron reading this is that i think the heart beat raising is due to the actuall effort of the activity involved, same with body heat too, its got nothing at all to do with having an orgasm at all as far as i can see, this happens to me, i sweat like crazy for all my best efforts, and yet still nothing happens, no orgasm at all, so when i use a vib and lay there calmly and just hold it letting it do its thing, guess what, i stay at normal temp my heart is at rest and again i dnt orgasm

 

Making love to a piece of plastic and memories or fantasy is very different when your making love to a women.

I can assure you that its definatly not from the "activity" aka physical exertion that causes the increased heart rate or the sweat, what you have to understand is I don't expend a great deal of energy that is too hard and well pointless really because it takes time for a women to orgasm.

A man will allways ejaculate before a women is ready.

Ejaculation should not be the goal for a man when making love.

Female orgasm is the goal.

To achieve genuine orgasm is no easy task despite what most people claim.

If you are in a hurry to have orgasm ask yourself why ?

Dildos ?

Get the real thing a nice hard but soft cock !!!

Extended foreplay with someone that turns you on no only with his looks but also how he treats you in bed.

If your not getting aroused there is probably a very good reason.

If a man is to eager to get his penis in you hes not thinking of your needs, only his own.

I tend to aspire to the idea that if you treat women with kindness, gentleness and love they will have an orgamsm and that is not only advantageous for them but also me.

It really is a win-win situation.

Its a bit like a car, if you look after it it will transport you all over the place without incident.

On the other hand if you thrash your car it will fall to pieces very quickly and be a source of problems for you for a long time.

First thing you have to do is work out what feels good ?

And what is blocking orgasm ?

Orgasm will only happen if your mind allows it to happen.

Humans are very sensitive creatures with a massive brain, that is quickly put off.

If you have been brain-washed not to enjoy sex you won;t be able to enjoy it.

If you can masturbate to orgasm I think you are capable of having an orgasm with a man.

 

Is it just me or is there something so strident, so bullying about BenGreen's posts that would put any woman off answering his question or having an orgasm?

That should, of course, be GentleBen. Interesting slip.

 

see last answer, but add that i never once masterbated, why would i, nothing to gain from doing it

 

OK I have to agree with Lady of the Freaks!! How the hell would you know weather or not? If a women thinks the orgasim is amazing then why the fuck should you care!!! I mean jeez, a women know her body if not better then a man can ever. So if you somehow turn into a women then you have the right to tell women weather or not we are having an orgasim!! Until that day comes, I think you should stop bashing women that haven't had a "real" orgasim in your opinion. I've said what I needed to say. So peace and many more to come.

Tiffany

 

Your bashing women for their stories, of course they won't keep sharing if you think that their orgasim sucks when they think it was amazing!

Tiffany

 

Well this is probably as good a time as any to bring this to a close.

I'm sorry if I'm a bully that wasn't my intention.

I'm sorry if I hurt the "Ladys..." feelings, sometimes I can be a little insensitive.

If I'm going to be viciously attacked in here I just the sooner not post.

 

Its just called tact dude, you'll never get anywhere telling a woman her opinion is wrong.

 

Yep exactly what I was getting at.


Tiffany