I partially agree. You can't make it happen, but you can make it possible by being open to it and investing the time and effort required. If the chemistry is right and the other person does their part, it all comes together. Love is free, but at the same time, it costs you everything.
i dont get butterflies so much as that knot in my throat. falling in love, to me, is a painful but happy thing. most of the time im fearful that something bad will happen.