if you somehow had the ability to create your perfect partner what would they be like? for me i would have a girl (obviously) who is a pervert just like me, who doesnt give a fuck about dancing or really any "party" shit, sort of an intovert whos easy to talk to. who when she opens up is legitimatly funny and easy going. who doesnt give a fuck and does what she wants. who's into anime, who's into video games, who's into books, who i can talk to about said things with and over analyze with. now that iv given my example maybe i can hear from all of you how would you contruct your perfect partner (i realize its easy to look at this post and think its just a framework for me to rant myself and ya it sorta is.....but its also a legitimate question i am legitimatly curious what qualities others value in a partner and i hope this could be a question others enjoy......or ya know call stupid and completley ignore whatever suits you lol)
A adorable B bright C caring and charming d devilsih in a good way e enigmatic f funny.... fun to be around g good sport h humorous, handsome, honest i intellient j k kind l loving m masculine in spirit at least n o open to new ideas and things p q r s sincere t trustworthy u understanding v w winner by being himself x y z
there's not a list of criteria that a perfect partner should follow. everyone i end up interested in is completely different from everyone before. of course, criterion one would be that she doesn't like her own posts.
a strong willed slightly muscular female with high intelligence, high loyalty, and a slightly devious side. Void of blindness and enjoys weed and similar interests of mine. High patience, humility, and foresight. Zero bitchyness
36 24 36 Intelligent Non-smoker light drinker Athletic Loves Dogs and Cats Adventurous Empathetic Warm Loving Caring Confident Loves Sports Healthy Alluring Trustworthy Hotwater
i was trying to edit my post so i clicked around trying to find the edit button and accidently hit the like button now it keeps coming up in error everytime i try to undo it believe me im not that egotistical
TBH I like fun dating, casual stuff. But I've seen enough people's lives ruined/fucked up or suffered ridiculous losses by modern marriage etc So I'd do the best I could to swerve a bullshit situation. Firstly, I'd strongly object to any livein/serious girlfriend/wife calling me her "partner". Partner is a homosexuals word and has no place in describing heterosexual relationships, IMO. As for what I look for. Well looks, interests, sense of humour etc are key. But beyond that, I'm looking for strength of character. That does NOT mean a shorthaired "man in a dress" like a Hillary Clinton type. The exact opposite infact. What grate me are girls who say the right thing, do the right thing (initially) then float along on a tide of bullshit created by their own fears and weaknesses. I plan on making 2016 a year of fun and detachment. As for being pulled into the "relationship" bullshit, I feel like I've seen it all before, heard it all before.
Funny, Catholic, nice, intelligent, normal, tall, mentally strong, manly, has a (good) job, doesn't take selfies all the time like most guys these days
Apparently, I like narcissists with Mommy issues who lie even when the truth would be a better option. He would be so into internet relationships that he misses the magic of rl. He would think farting is an epic sport activity and would rate his efforts in a scale from one to holy-crap-someone-open-a-window. Judging from past history, anyway.
For papa, make him a scholar. For mama, make him rich as a king. For me, well, I wouldn't holler If he were as handsome as anything.
I was being a bit humorous with my a-z list...as the song was going through my head when I saw this thread...a is for the....blah...blah...blah....song.....don't know the title of the song at the moment, though, but know some of the lyrics and melody..... Basically, i like people I get along with and are happy to be with me.....and who I feel happy to be with.... Ever hear that famous quote? " you will mostly remember how the person made you feel..." is so true.
I do not believe you, I think you are egotistical (I know an egotistical person when I meet them) and maybe even a bit pretentious.
There are certain qualities I like in a man, but from my experience I think compatibility mostly boils down to temperament. I get along best with men who are even keeled, pleasant, naturally erring on the side of happy, and easy going. It doesn't matter how much I have in common with a man, if he is more type a than type b I can't really deal with him. I tend to be more type a so I need someone to balance me