What do you think?

Your so clueless!!!!!!!!!
First of all your asking a question about if you could get pregnant when a man cums in you! Of course you will! Unless you are showing off your going to be pregnant.

Natural, natural, natural, nothing if natural anymore. You want to be natural, why don't you live in a cave, eat raw meat, drink breast milk, not shave, not use a computer! If it wasn't for pills, no one would be here. Why don't you tell your sick grandmother that she shouldn't be taking pills anymore cause its not natural. To hell with grandma, that pill taking douche.

I don't think your ready to be a mother if you don't know the answer to your own question.

 

I'm guessing the situation is made up and is doing her own psychology experament to see everyone's reactions, also playing the antagonist.

 

Why would I lie about this?

 

Because you are handling your situation in a very ignorant manner. I thought you were bluffing too because of your reactions.

Maybe your so relaxed because ignorance is bliss.

 

How to take care of myself in what manner? Knowing when I ovulate? Can you show me some way I can better tune into my ovulation?
I have told the guy about it and he is totally supportive.

 

I am not ignoring anything important.
I am relaxed because I know that I could easily let this make me very anxious and scared and I think I will better be able to handle it if I just take it as it comes and accept it. I also don't think that pregnancy is anything to be frightened of.

 

It is if you are 18, not self-sufficient financially, and obviously ignorant enough to NOT KNOW that a broken condom could mean a fucking pregnancy.

Good god, when I first started having sex (in Jan.) I made sure that I was educated as to every option, every consequence, every fucking detail. I am a woman, a responsible woman who is not idealistically ignorant about the responsibilities and stigmas included in the birth and rearing of a child. If you do not educate yourself as to how your body works, and ways in which to protect yourself against disease and pregnancy, how the FUCK to you expect to raise and educate a child?

YOU CAN'T!!!!

Go to a planned parenthood clinic and go through counseling about reproductive health and responsibility! You need to know....to be an educated sexual woman. Otherwise you are just another girl pretending to be grown up.

Holly

 

i understand your views on the morning after pill SO thats why you need to check out other options and take care of yourself and if you are stil reading this then you are a lazy ass who needs to get off the internet and check into your situation. IF the condom BROKE and he was inside of you then there is MOST CERTAINLY (99.9% chance) his SPERMIES are also inside you.

 

listen to HippieFreak2004 that sums it up for ya right there! peace out Holly!!

 

Thank you! At least someone heard me!

holly

 

First off. If this is true as you're saying, then no one here can tell you if you're pregnant or not. lol. Although all the speculation and random %percentages% are quite humorous.

Secondly. Thats the only question you've asked -- if you could be pregnant that is. If you want support or advice or want to hear other people's experiences and if they relate to yours, your going to have to fill in a bit more of your own story. How long have you been with the possible soon to be dad? Do you have ANY concerns, or questions besides about the possibility of you're being pregnant? Assuming you r pregnant how do you think your parents will react? Do you have a strategy to raise a child in this society?

So if you're not bluffing then come on, throw us a bone here . . .

What do you see as the pro's / con's to being a young parent, or a parent at all in this day and age?

 

I do know that a broken condom could mean pregnancy. What I wanted to know is what you people thought about the chances given the circumstance.
I know every option and every consequence.
I am not ignoring the responsibilities of raising a child.
I also know how my body works.

 

You misread my post. My question was how good the chances were given the circumstance. My concern coming from the fact that I had a lot of semen on my leg. I would not have even posted if I didn't think I could have gotten pregnant. In fact, the reason I did post is because I knew that the chances were good. I just wanted to know what other people thought.
I actually see living in a cave, eating raw meat, not shaving (I don't shave anyway), and not using a computer as a very good idea. Drinking breast milk, that's pretty ridiculous as breast milk is only produced for an infant. Also, every kind of milk comes from a breast, so what other king of milk could I possibly drink?
As for no one being here if it wasn't for pills, I don't believe that. Life in all forms exists without man-made pills.
As for my grandmother, she will do what she pleases. Her taking pills does not infringe upon my life.

 

psychology experiment? How am I antagonizing?

 

Would you want to have a child with this man? Just curious

 

That post really made me feel good.
Ok, so I accept that no one here can tell me whether I'm pregnant or not. That's fine. All I wanted to know was what you guys thought of the situation and what you thought my chances might be.
The best plan I have come up with so far (and I don't think many of you will love this) is to find out, and then if I am pregnant, I'm going to save up money while I change my lifestyle to be more manageable and as self-sufficient as possible. Then when I have enough (which might not have to be much. A friend of mine moved into such an apartment for free when she was pregnant) I will move into a rent-based-on-income apartment and take care of myself to the best of my abilities until the day comes to give birth and then from there on out I plan on raising a healthy child to the best of my abilities. I want to homeschool and show h/er how life works and how amazing everything is.
Assuming I am pregnant, it doesn't matter how my parents will react.
The pros to being a young parent are that you still have a lot of energy, a lot of optimism, a bigger drive, there's less of an age gap so you could relate better. In this society it's a lot harder to deal with what everyone else thinks. It will be harder for the child to learn about what's really important with outside influences telling h/im what they think s/he should think. But everyone has to learn for h/imself.

 

I've never thought about wanting to have a child with this guy.

 

If it sounds so good then why don't you? Thats right, because you are too dependent on society and society is run unnaturally.

 

Why?

He got down with cumming all over your vagina, now you NEED to get down with something.

 

The condom disrupts what would happen "naturally." Give me a break!

What is your real reason for not wanting to take the morning after pill. I can respect your opinion if it is an educated one. You are basically just saying "NO, I am not taking it 'cause I don't wanna..."

It is hardly about you anymore. How are you going to pay for a baby.

Chances are, you are not pregnant, but you need to be responsible and realistic.

Today is the last day you could take the emergency contraception with any degree of efficacy.