wow... seriously? i looked at your photos, there's nothing wrong with you at all. i can't even imagine what you don't like. i think your brain is playing tricks on you man.
Things once would lose their value/meaning if I looked at them for too long too. I was in a very dissociated state, during some parts of my depression. Your mind very well be playing tricks on you. Literal hate sucks.
im pretty serious about that statement, and at the same time i don't care much about appealing to people. i guess i can say i like my ability to have facial hair haha and my eyes but really besides that nope. i kinda wanna be a more burly guy, and i turned out to be a hairy wimpy guy with gay tendencies. hrmm but its probably all in my head thanks
I used to hate a lot of things about myself. Not anymore though. I'm not even really that cute but I still like the way I look. Weird thing is when i thought I was ugly, people treated me like I was. Now that I have more confidence girls all of a sudden think I'm cute as fuck. I don't like how my life is working out right now, but that's a temporary problem that I'll fix eventually.
The things I used to hate about myself I've come to appreciate. Not having innate abilities, talents or whatnot lends perspective... and appreciation for those who do and as well the ability to recognize those things about me that someone might be a tad envious of. Without having royally fucked up in the past I wouldn't have quite the understanding of things that I do- it was sort of a gift I gave myself lol. Perfection is a fine and noble goal but no one achieves it. If something about myself would warrant self hatred I look at it as a challenge to change. Life isn't supposed to be easy.
i hate how irresponsible i am and that i apparently just don't give a fuck. hate the extra forty pounds i'm carrying, hate my thin as hell lips that don't even show when i smile. i do like my sig picture tho, don't really know why and i hate that i'm as antisocial as i am sometimes. i think i've hurt a few people's feelings with it
Well- it's arguable that if you hate it then you in fact do give a fuck... at least enough to append an emotional value to it albeit not enough to actually change! (we're all guilty!)
Stepping stones man, the challenge is to cultivate the fine art of not doing this while still being yourself.
You look good, dude Maybe you have a bit of an image issue. I used to have it. Forgedabout 'burly man' type, not everyone likes that anyway. Make one group of people happy, make another unhappy and vica versa.
Good thing you're the only one who hates them, huh? Saying that kinda shit doesn't just make you laugh? Lmao I always thought hate was baggage. I'ma be corny and use the word dislike here. Dislike.. explosive anger with no vent. Sometimes it's so bad I feel like my eyes will pop if I keep letting pressure go to my head. It's more rare than it used to be, so I guess that's .. better .. I almost always black out if I get a surge of anger but this past year I've been maintaining that peace factor, lol. Dislike.. Mood swings. Dislike.. Waiting. Dislike.. trying to find a partner. Would be nice if ladies went to guys. Or if I was attractive enough to attract, lmao. That's about it on my list for now.
Thanks. Hate is total baggage, even more so when it comes to yourself. I joke with the word hate in this thread. Dislikes are definitely what I'm aiming for. I suppose I hate my mood swings, but I like them too because without them I'd stay in one state of mind and would not be satisfied with anything. Yeah I like to laugh about it when in the middle of class I'm groping my crotch for comfortableness.
yeah, makes me even angrier with myself. but like you said, we all do it. probably the reason everyone is fat, even though they hate it