What do you find attractive in another person...

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Moonglow181, Feb 11, 2014.

  1. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    With my hair, I have always been a wash and go person. Never fuss with it...I let the wind do that. LOL
     
  2. puggybear

    puggybear stars may twinkle-but I shine!

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    He was probably telling you the truth,Sally. I know a woman in her late 60s who's had to have three bouts of surgery to clean out her tear-ducts and nasal passages,which were really badly inflamed and clogged with old solidified eye shadow. She still has the [abeit very small] scars from the surgery as they had to slice open her nasal passages on both sides,but at different times.
    Personally,it's always a sense of humour that grabs my attention first.
     
  3. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    what was the op even about? :tongue: seems we went off on a tangent talking about the f-word and now it's girly talk about make up and hair...
     
  4. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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  5. Gongshaman

    Gongshaman Modus Lascivious

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    I have to say I'm a sucker for a bit of eyeliner. Being with a woman who rarely wears any make-up and then on a special occasion dolls up with bit of eyeliner and mascera.. wowwie-zowie is that a turn on! I don't know what it is.. it makes your eyes look more penetrating I guess but its more than that, something sensually tribal about it, something deeply ingrained in the human psyche... considering it's been used for thousands of years there must be something to it.

    Yikes! Yeah that would kinda stick with ya.

    Well thats not as bad as when the 'anemic look' was in, when they used to use white lead base make-up :eek:.
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  6. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Yeah, I like to define my eyes on occassion....
     
  7. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    MAMA!!!


    What's gotten into you?




    Fuuuck!
     
  8. Gongshaman

    Gongshaman Modus Lascivious

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    Hey, you've got eyeliner, and you say fuck...:love:
     
  9. YouFreeMe

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    Word! Why do people feel hair is so important as to pay a lot of money to maintain it, apply products (usually chemicals), and damage it with strange substances? You were born with everything that you need to maintain your hair! Other than a brush, that is...

    The whole perm/curling/straitening/blowout thing is maddening! We are trained to believe that, without professional/chemical intervention that we are not good enough.

    Not that I'm above/beyond this sort of influence. I just regret that it exists.

    /rant.
     
  10. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    I love hair products.
    I think good hair makes so, so much difference.

    Sometimes I wonder why am I still here.
     
  11. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Hair is important.
     
  12. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    Lol! :love:
     
  13. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    I literally grew up in a salon. I agree with this statement.
     
  14. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    I colored mine once when I was about 25 from my original blond to a strawberry blond because my friend talked me into it.
    Going a bit lighter meant I had to bleach it first so she said so that we did and either the bleaching or the coloring made me react. I was burning near the end before the color was to be washed out and so we rushed to the sink and got it out. I had big sores on my scalp, my scalp was bleeding all over, my face was swelling near my hair line and I was a mess for days, couldn't brush my hair because it's long and any pulling made me go nuts till it healed.
    My last cut by anyone was when I was 18, she cut it above my shoulders and it's never been that way, always falling down my back at least 6 or more inches. I unloaded my shit all over her and never had anyone cut it again. Now I wash it, toss it and let it do it's own funky thing and I trim it about every two months to manage the ends. Just think of all the bucks I have saved not fussing with it. I don't even brush it till just before my shower because when I wake up it falls where it wants and looks like I did a little to toss it already once I run my fingers through it. Peeps say I am lucky, I don't look scary if I was to wake up and someone was knocking at the door.
    I find if I do stuff with it then it doesn't look right, ever, and I have only permed it once too. It's wavy in lengths all over but I wanted a ringlet style, what a mess that was. Wavy is good!
    Here is the scary thing. My mom died hers, gets people to cut it every three weeks, and has streaked it and perms it about every six months. She is losing it fast. Suddenly it's going, from a thick head of hair to a very thin head of hair in the past few months and has had every test to find out why, has even been to skin specialists, no answers. I feel bad for her and at the same time I hope it's not a family thing but has more to do with what she has done to it all those years. Because my grandparents on her side died in their early 60s and most others along her family line went about the same age she doesn't know if it would be a family thing. She is looking at wigs now. Shitty.
     
  15. Moonglow181

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    I agree hair is important....so I use the most organic shampoo I can find without chemicals.....and leave it alone. LOL
     
  16. Piaf

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    Ummm you and your friend bleached your hair? Unless your friend is a professional, I am not surprised,
     
  17. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    It was a long time ago and I think it was called bleaching, it was in the kit if I remember right, (have never used one since so I am really not sure) trust me I got suckered into doing it and it wasn't a good thing. When you are young you might let a friend who does her's all the time do yours. You know,,, girl bonding and such,,,
    I don't let anyone touch it after them bad events, sept during sex, BF can play with it, hahahahaha
    But ya, when you are young you let your girlfriends do all sorts of stuff to your stuff
    I like the word Stuff,,,
     
  18. Piaf

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    I never let my friends or cousins mess with my hair or eyebrows.
     
  19. Gongshaman

    Gongshaman Modus Lascivious

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    Really great hair is a bonus, nowhere near a deal breaker. I had a GF once, poor girl (mid twentys) had some pre-mature balding on the top of her head. Though I assured her no one could tell, and she admitted knowing it was part of her family's genetics, she was still pretty self-conscious about it...

    We are all slaves to our genetics for the most part.
     
  20. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    When I got in the military at 17 someone wanted to pluck my eyebrows to give them a thin line kind of shape even tho I thought they were ok, not thick at all. It hurt like a sonofaBitch never again. Then later I went and had em waxed because my sister said it's easy,,, I prit near killed her. Never again.
    I don't have to do shit like that. Shave the arm pits and thats it. Even my leg hairs are tiny little blond ones like on my arms, can't see em so I don't do that either and no one ever made me do that cause I heard once you start they get thicker and darker. All my hairs are good on me, no need to fuck with them but everybody thinks yer supposed to because their moms said to, or someone did.
    Personally as far as friendships with women I am attracted to those who can be ready and out the door like me, not fussing and freaking out over what the make up looks like and I hate women who put that shit on while driving too, they are nothing but fake when they have to reapply while getting to work or where ever.
     

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