What do you find attractive in another person...

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  1. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I find confidence coupled with a gentle heart very attractive for starters....

    Please say what you find attractive, all...I will be back if I think of more...
     
  2. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    1. Honesty, loyalty, trust, all that basic crap
    2. The ability to make me laugh.
    3. The fact that thinking about him makes me smile
    4. The way he loves me
    5. His Beard
     
  3. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    A sense of authority, a wicked and lewd sense of humor, someone with a mischievously playful demeanor. And Johnny Depp.
     
  4. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    I have a thing for tall, kinda socially awkward men. I also love compassion towards others. It melts my heart. Someone who is willing to defend me, but knows I can handle my own. A witty sense of humor goes a long way with me as well. Playfulness is huuuuge. I love to laugh, tickle, wrestle, and chase/be chased. I love chivalry. If a man treats me like a queen, he'll be catered to like a king.
     
  5. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Playfulness is huge and the ability to laugh at oneself is very attractive to me, too....
    I love good humor, too...and a laughing rapport with someone...:)
     
  6. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    What MAMA said, plus he has to make me turn into jelly inside. Especially if I havent seen him in a while.
     
  7. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    From a physical perspective, I like women who are feminine and petite. An attractive face is more important than "tits and ass," as is overall physical fitness. I am not put off by a little extra weight, as long as she is well-proportioned and otherwise healthy and well kept.

    Personality-wise, I like women who are down-to-earth and intelligent without being arrogant and over-educated. I like women who are easy going and easy to talk to. Some women exude warmth, and I like that.
     
  8. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Honesty is definitely important....in any relationship to me....
     
  9. Moonglow181

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    I find inner strength attractive....and a positive outlook....
     
  10. Hedgeclipper

    Hedgeclipper Qiluprneeels Nixw

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    Smartness, nice eyes, smelling good, and a nice voice

    the ability to hold a conversation with me for over 45 minutes and the enjoyment of extremely long walks in bad weather at odd hours are also a plus, but I haven't met any girls that are actually down though. Pretty much that's what I do with my friends though.

    also, music skills. Music skills are pretty hot. And boobs.

    if only all women were like this :p
     
  11. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    inner strength is important. confident but not aggressive. Someone how is strong enough to lead when needed but smart enough to follow when it works best.
     
  12. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    i like quiet people
     
  13. RainyDayHype

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    sarcastic sense of humor, interesting voice, odd demeanor, partial to cuddling, bad eye sight, stuff like that..
     
  14. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    I really dig creativity. That's super important to me.

    Someone who cares about their health.

    Someone who has dreams, goals, ambition.

    Someone who cares about the impact they make on other people and the world.

    Someone who is more light-hearted than ultra aggressive and easily offended.

    Someone who makes wise choices, plans ahead, sees the big picture, but can still be mostly in the moment.

    Someone who enjoys their life and appreciates what they have.

    Also I like beards and long hair, and people who prefer to rough it than to spend more time grooming/shopping/picking clothes than I do. :)

    I also prefer to have the same core values...in terms of philosophical/spiritual beliefs, etc.

    Someone who loves animals and nature.

    Someone who smiles a lot or makes me laugh a lot and hopefully thinks I'm funny. (that's huge because my sense of humor is unique)

    Also I'm obsessed with man-scents.
     
  15. wcw

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    I'm not sure what I really like. I like women who like to talk, but I also have been attracted to quiet women also. I used to think that I was attracted to shorter women but the more I think about it, I know tall women that turn me on as well. A sense of humor is something I really like. Someone who has interests, activities and hobbies, even ones that I'm not into, that they strive to learn more about or get better at.

    Oh yeah, and a woman who has a fetish for absent minded, penny pinching, not very attractive men - that's pretty important to me. I find that attractive in a woman.
     
  16. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    Awww damn. I am only five foot five. But I do have a hoarding hobby and have recently began to read up on it and learn about it... Its quite interesting
    Hee hee.
     
  17. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    I like arrogant uneducated women with back hair.
     
  18. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    OK, this does not have to mean in a love interest. It could mean what you find attractive in other people....period....

    I was thinking about this and I find people who listen very attractive.....
    I am a good listener....but I can be involved in dialogue, too...
     
  19. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    Intelligent men who are able to form their own ideas. Easy to talk to! Interested more in the world of ideas than in the physical aspects of life. I'm not interested in someone who is super concerned with keeping up appearances or playing the game (although an interest in fitness and the outdoors is a plus).

    Sensitivity is nice as well.
     
  20. kokujin

    kokujin Senior Member

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    honesty up frontness a personality that shows and is shared with others. don't like: quiet bums who only speak if spoken to.
     

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