What do you do when someone wants to kill you...

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by MyAphrodesiac, Nov 25, 2004.

  1. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    well shit, that sucks...you don't deserve that. restraining order won't do shit if he's serious, but its still a good idea to do. mass. cops suck!! they won't do shit for you.

    i REALLY hope things get better for you.

    if you living by yourself, then i would look for a place to live with a friend.

    hope things get better for you.
     
  2. MyAphrodesiac

    MyAphrodesiac Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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  3. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    restraining orders seem like a good idea...but they dont help. they are just a piece of paper and really hard to get. the person has to cause you physical harm...they cant just threaten you...or at least not in maryland..believe me..i have gone through it all.

    do you live with your folks or out on your own? if you are on your own, you should have some friends stay with you. or perhaps you should stay with some friends for the time being.
     
  4. luminous_times

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    Isn't there a women's shelter you could at least spend the nights at? :(
     
  5. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    here this is what I posted in the thread to him. I am reposting it for you. You can call the cops and have him arrested just for what he wrote on here. I would print it now so you have proof. It's amazing how much snotty stuck up men who think they are entitled to everything change quite a bit after being strip searched.
    My ex wasn't even as fucking crazy as you sound but the second he verbally threatened my life it ruined him financialy and he lost his real estate license- so it screwed him pretty bad. what you are doing constitues harrasment and threatening someones life at least here in CA is an 140k dollar bail-you would have to have 14 thousand to even get out-not to mention future lawyer fees. I am going to tell the forumer you are threatining about her rights so she know's she can excercise the options to call the cops on your ass. Maybe a few nights in county would put a stop to this.
     
  6. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    Lynsey, remind me not to piss you off.


    (or stalk you)
     
  7. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    Holy shit... I had no idea that was him....

    If all else fails, the movie 'Enough' could give ya some ideas... take some self defense classes, and things of that sort.... man those cops suck..
     
  8. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    sorry I have just gone through a very similar thing not over the computer but in person whenever I wanted to leave. I know you already left him but it will get out of hand if you let it go on.
     
  9. Mr MiGu

    Mr MiGu King of the Zombies

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    begin carrying a knife
     
  10. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    That's probably illegal...
     
  11. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    oh god I have had my crazy share of stalkers but not in a long time-thank god. My ex was just really a calm person in general but when he got pissed it wasn't pretty. He went to thearapy and worked through all those issues or at least has told me he has but it doesn't matter.
     
  12. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    not in massachusetts. you can carry a pocket knife with a blade no longer than 4 inches, i believe, might be 3.5 inches but that's beside the point and it can't be a fixed blade, has to be folding. switch blades are illegal, i believe.

    i usually carry 2 knifes on me at all times.
     
  13. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    You're safe with me, Lynsey. I'm too lazy to be a stalker. Besides, why would I want to chase after a woman that wanted nothing to do with me?
     
  14. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    Well by these laws, it's perfectly possible that he's got atleast one too....
     
  15. TheMagicalMushy

    TheMagicalMushy Senior Member

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    A knife? Fuck that. A tazer.
     
  16. BlackGuardXIII

    BlackGuardXIII fera festiva

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    not if the blade is under four inches, and some places restrict certain types like butterfly knives and switchblades.



    If my life was threatened, and I had a knife....the legality of carrying it would not be my priority. But the confidence that no one could take it from me would be a very big factor.
    Myself, I would just find a police academy self defense manual, and see how to disable an attacker very quickly and for a long time thereafter.
    Poke him in the eye, the throat, kick or grab his groin, stomp his feet,kneehim, bite, push up on his nose, or hit it upwards, but that may kill him if you arent careful.
    kick the side of his knee, very little pressure on a relaxed knee will break it.
    pull his ears. get a hold of one of his fingers, and bend it backwards with all your bodyweight, try to break it. scratch his face,

    and of course, scream "Fire!" as loud as you can, cuz most peeps wont care if he kills you, and will hear you yelling help, then turn up the tv.
     
  17. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    a tazer...i'd rather have a gun
     
  18. Edward G.

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    kill him and run away.
     
  19. crummyrummy

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    Im not EXACTLY sure whats goin on here...but if you are serious (and it seems like you are from these posts) then you need to talk to someone about this. I had a friend who was stalked by her ex and she went to a womens group and they helped her file a restraining order and helped her deal with him. Check out some kinds of those groups for your area....they should have some info online or a hotline you can call. Dont just sit back and take it...there are some really crazy people out there and NOONE deserves to live in fear.

    I hope all works out. Good luck.
     
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