I'm fascinated with sex, Granted I'm in a commited relationship where my partner wants to wait to have vaginal sex until wedding day. Thats perfectly ok with me, She is an amazing girl who is well worth the wait. We always have oral, but I'm always open to new things. I've questioned anal sex a long time ago before and got a no which I was fully expecting to but lately we have been exploring each other down there with fingers. I'm all for playing fair and recieving if I can give. Would having anal sex with her be losing our virginity? In a sense I think it would be but others might thinks not. I know a lot of people who think that performing oral sex is loosing your virginity. OR stimulating her clit misionary style and it slips down just the slightest bit less then a quarter inch is loosing your virginity. This is a very opinionated topic, I look forward to seeing your opinions and the poll.