How's about the men tell us what they think about women acting like a porn star in bed. Details please.
We think, "Holy damn, she's really good! How many dicks has this chick had? I maybe should get tested! :0 " I don't know about hipforum men, but your average guy mostly desires - "a lady in the streets, but freak in the sheets".
Its always fun to find out where each girls limits are. Most guys will know what it means when a woman does everything is but some women have no clue. When a woman wants to do everything is porn star level and a keeper
I was curious cause I have a few male friends and they brought that up one day. My friend and I were talking about it too. One of our friends said he liked his gf the way she was and wouldn't want her to act like something she's not. His gf is such a sweetheart so I know what he meant. Some of our other friends said they'd jump on the chance to have their wives/gf act like that. Personally, I could probably do it just for fun, for role playing reasons, but not all the time...it's just too fake.
i will pass on fake tits and disgusting stretched and bleached asshole however bringing a lady to the point where she can freely drop some inhibitions without ''acting'' is a wonderful and beautiful thing you should leave the porn pigs out of the bedroom...it isn't real sex anyway
I'm not sure how truthfully I wanna answer this question, but this seems like a non judgmental place... Has anyone seen that movie Boogie Nights by the way about the porn industry? I thought it interesting, kinda funny at times. I guess I have caught myself imagining hot girls I know, but well tempered who would never do those kind of things when I was watching a video. Otherwise the porn star I don't always care for, I mean like if you catch feelings for them, and then see them in a scene that is just way too gross for my taste. I had girls do stuff for me in bed that girls in porn would do... but it was usually one of those... how do I say, uh what is that pc term? Sex worker? Yeah those. I feel like a sleaze saying that much already, but then I don't usually get to talk about these things to anyone. I never did anything really inconsiderate, but because my relationships were so friendly and polar opposite of my sex fantasies, I had to seek those things with other women, like not relationship types, but hot as fuck. I guess that's the world we live in, duality... Haven't yet found the women who is both a stable friend, and likes the psycho sex I'm into, haha.
Porn is just acting and I don't care for it...the only porn I find even remotely decent is the real thing (amateur), between loving couples who are clearly comfortable with each other and enjoy both giving and receiving pleasure. The video quality isn't great but that is secondary. Now that I've answered everyone will assume I spend all my time watching porn. Half the time maybe, but I got to sleep sometime you know.
It's the best place for a woman to act like a porn star (without actually being one I suppose, then it would be the studio?) :cheers2:
That's the very reason I wouldn't want a woman I was with to act like that. None of the women I've fucked have behaved even remotely that way and I always loved them just as they were. I definitely prefer "the girl next door" or "my high school sweetheart" sort of woman in bed. Having said that, most women would probably consider me pretty boring in bed. I'm mostly about vaginal sex, with the occasional blowjob thrown in for a little variety. I like going down on my women, but am less insistent about them reciprocating. I just want to pet a lot, then fuck for a long time, ultimately cum in their pussy, and then cuddle for a good long while afterwards. The kinkiest thing I've ever wanted my wife to do is let another guy fuck her while I watched. (Been there, done that.) Otherwise, that's it. See? About as vanilla as they come. (No pun intended.)
I've been in situations where I felt uncomfortable. Like for e.g. moaning really loud. It seems really out of place to me, since I don't moan. I might breathe a little... lol. I'm really pretty quiet, so the moaning kind of takes away more than it brings to the interaction. This may be totally different now. I should say back then I was quiet! Lol. Now I don't know that I would mind as much as feeling self conscious that the neighbors might hear.
This is why it also depends what kind of porn one is talking about. Seems a big part of porn these days has this 'girl next door' types in it. That's obviously because a large amount of men prefers those kind of porn and porn stars. If I imagine a fun time in the bedroom with a woman who acts like a porn star my mind would take me there sooner than some anal gaping big tit loud moaning porn star.
I prefer my partners to "keep it real". If you experience wild, toe-curling, eye-rolling orgasms that last for ages, don't try to hide it. To me, that's hot as can be. On the other hand - if your orgasms aren't all that intense, don't put on a show. I can usually tell the difference.