What defines love????

At This Point In Time......NOT.



Cheers Glen.

 

It is Frixday - Friday with kisses. lol

 

In Three Hours Time It's "Hate-A-Day".......I Therefore Intend To "Maintain The Rage" For The

Next 27 Hours......



Cheers Glen.

 

Has someone put shoes on your feet?

 

In order to not be put in such a position you need to be able to foresee the future. Relationships ending or destructing isn't necessarily a bad thing. An ex-lover of mine despite the hurt and betrayal has brought out many things in me i never new was deep inside of me. Most of it good but some of it not so good. In many ways despite the relationship deteriorating she was a blessing in my life. If you have an honest relationship with yourself than there is much to learn about yourself even in hurtful relationships. Of course i'm not encouraging staying in hurtful relationships either.

In curious to your opinion, experiences, and answers to such questions.

 

I have often posted on this forum, that you need to love yourself in order to love someone else. That does not mean to say that one is in love with yourself, just being able to see your full potential and knowing how to deal with your own shortcomings.
Seeing into the future is not rocket science if you are out drinking with friends and that in itself lowers our inhibitions, it also makes us vulnerable to temptation.
Always be mindful of that.

 

In curious to your opinion, experiences, and answers to such questions.[/QUOTE]
Is love dependant on commitment?
Can love exist without sexual encounters?
Does love flourish in arranged marriages?
So many questions.

Love is dependant on commitment. Otherwise, it is one-sided.
Yes, love can exist without sex. In some cases.
No idea about arranged marriages, only what I have read or seen on TV.

 

As a kid, this was referred to in my 'hood as "find'em, feel'em, fxxx'em, and forget'em".
I still think it's pretty crude.

 

That is NOT love. lol

 

I see love as something fluid. People are constantly changing. Lasting love accepts and embraces changes. Sometimes what’s true love at 19 is gone at 30. The folks just changed in different ways. It does not mean they were never in love and that their love was not real. Love of a parent for a child is different

 

So love sometimes cannot except change?
Yes love of a parent or child is different, does that never change?

 

No love is always changing. I may love the same lady at 89 tat I loved at 19. But my love is different. We are different

 

Love is what respect is. If you love somebody so much you would respect them highly.

 

Your love is like a tide, ebbs, and flows - very mysterious.

We are all different.

 

Did King David love Bathsheba. Not at first. He just lusted for her. But he loved her later I think

 

Have you been in love?
Respecting differences is naturing their soul. Well, put.

 

Sometimes hate leads to love. Do you need confirmation?

 

Confirmation of what?

 

THAT hate can sometimes turn into love.

 

No. I think it could.