For deadpool it is.though I think its hard to remain attracted to the same person forever. But I know marriage doesnt define it either. With all the divorces and cheating that goes on
That is true. However I do know some that went back and re-maried the first??? Best to avoid temptation. My rule of thumb.
I have seen those in homes forget they are married, and form new relationships. Actually, there is a film on that subject. I forgot the name.
For me at 82, all the love I thought I went thru, omg, such nonsense...for me, real love is when one births a child or children...you love them, no matter what.
Part of love is selfish. You like who you are when you're around that person. Or he or she brings out the best in you.