That post will invite other answers, likely more educated and insightful. Both partners keep in to each other is the best way. Get tested regularly and be honest with others if there is an issue. For women to give oral sex, using a condom - I know it’s not the most exciting thing but talking about safety and it’s one of the safe methods. Since discussing active sex abstinence is not included Is there any safe oral giving to women?
We only play in a very tight circle ⭕️ of friends. No one steps out without being tested before returning to the circle. This includes house parties and hotel take overs. If one of friends attend those events, they must be fully tested before we play again.
I was playing very risky for many years and was lucky. I only play with those I know are clean. I have a small circle of sex partners (5 men and two women) that stays with this circle.
The safest oral sex is... not having oral sex. The next safest is to always use condoms/oral dams and without exception.
My thoughts exactly. Unless your mouth is a disaster area, it's very unlikely to catch an STD via oral sex and while it' And while it's fine to use condoms/oral dams, where's the fun in that? And common sense says that if you don't think it's safe to have oral sex with someone, then don't. Go online and get the facts about STDs and don't just assume that if you give or get head from someone, you're going to be instantly infected with something... and like a lot of people seem to believe.
Be strictly monogamous!!! If have sex with the same person all the time, and you are sure they haven't been with anyone else then you should be able to give and receive all the oral sex that both of you desire without any repercussions.
[QUOTE="JS420, post: 9439918, member: 310 The key point here is ",,,and you are sure they haven't been with anyone else..."It's a point I've been trying to drive home to those sitting on the bench and waiting for Mr. Right and believing that once they find him, that'll make it safe to have sex when, in fact, unless he's with you 24/7, you have no idea where his dick has been. Sure, let's say it's me and you and if I were to get with someone else, I'd tell you... but that's me. Clearly, bisexuality and monogamy do not play nice with each other and I know that I would feel weird insisting on exclusivity - but I also know that we treat non-married people in a relationship the same way we treat married people and hold them to the same rules as being married. I know it's just me, but I'd also feel weird to have a guy insist or even imply that we should be exclusive and monogamous; we might as well get married. To be safe - and I'll say it again - don't have oral sex. Kinda defeats the purpose so next, make sure that your mouth (and his) is healthy; if you have cavities, gum disease, cuts, scrapes, abrasions, etc., in your mouth, don't have oral sex until you get your mouth healthy. Make this non-negotiable: Always use condoms; no exceptions, no excuses. Get tested regularly and don't be all weird about telling your doctor about your sexuality. None of this is rocket science; to me, this is just good old common sense including this: When in doubt, do nothing. All of this has kept me free from STDs for the entirety of my life and only God knows how many dicks I've sucked and pussies I've eaten...
I think I’m contrary on this subject. I don’t have anyone use condoms when I have oral sex with them. I can not imagine going without that explosion of cum in my mouth and the taste of cum as I swish around with my tongue and then the swallow. Not to mention that my throat is so tight that I would be scared of the condom unrolling. In my country we have vaccines and morning after medications that are very good at preventing STD infection and are provided free along with regular health checkups.
Keeping excellent oral health is one big key point that limits the risk of getting an STD. There are lower and much higher risk activities, though. Blowing a married man once a week is lower risk, going to glory holes and cruising spots are really high risk. Trusting your instincts is another one. I've passed on half the hookups because the guys couldn't read simple rules or were obvious creeps. I don't have any STD's, but I realized I was relying far too much on luck and cut out my riskier antics.
The old cock sucking friend of mine had dozens of regulars and sucked the come out of all of them. I suppose he was just lucky to not get anything, but he did candidly mention to his doc that his sex life consisted of sucking cocks. I don't know if I would be that forward. I never actually gave it any thought in the heat of the moment. The gay friend I knew for a while was scrupulously clean and had checkups very regularly. That's how it should be.
The pre-cum or lubrication is made by the two Cowper's Glands. The seminal fluid is produced mostly by the prostate and is chemically balanced (alkaline) to protect the sperm cells from the acidic environment of the vagina, thus the sometimes bitter taste. That's also why sometimes after swallowing there is a burp as the acid/base reaction makes CO2. (It's slightly off topic but.... This was for another post but I thought I'd throw it in here as well.)
