I got the belt as a kid, a few with the hand, and once with a metal spatula from my grandma. I didn’t get many spankings as a kid but each of them hurt same as the other.
As a spankee, I must say your method sounds effective. For the spanking to start with the hand, each snack hurting worse than the last and knowing you’ve still got a ways to go brings the proper amount of fear. Very effective punishment knowing the worst is still to come as your spanking progresses.
Canes do hurt. So do switches. On another site there's a woman who bought a spanking machine with a switch. Somehow you set it up and it winds up....stops for a second and then it whips around. She gets on all fours and gets herself into the right position and boy does she take it. The sound of the wind up...the short pause before it starts and the whistling sound as it's coming towards her is all awesome. I don't know how she takes it though. She's got a smallish bottom and she gets it on her lips down there too and it must hurt something aweful. Nice to watch though.
For me, I really enjoy the effect of leather paddle or doubled over belt. Worst is wooden compliments and canes.
Wow ! I just bought one from the Domesticdiscpline.info. It's the new current model with remote. Been testing , trying to work out my fav settings. It will leave a nice red, burning session. I first tried it on 5, over a thin pair of satin manties, then lowered them , wow !. Hoping to make some contact in this forum , so I can get a discipline order.
My favorite spanking implement is a Dr. Scholl Exercise Sandal. Thick as a wooden paddle and feels like one too!!
I'd love getting spanked by hand until my bottom is warm and red, and then with a belt. I did fantasize about a switch, we did try it once, it hurt too much. So we never did it again. I love long spankings at a stedy pace, not with pauses between spanks.
Since I have a major foot fetish, it makes me crazy when a woman uses a sandal to spank with. Especially if she has it on and she removes it. My least favorite is a belt because of the wrap around hits.
A long time ago, my female friend asked me if I had ever been spanked by a woman. I did not think much about it, and told her my Mother was not into that kind of thing and my father was usually not around. We occasionally joked about trying some recreational bare bottom spankings, but didn't know where to start, and were very hesitant to get into that. Fast forward many years later, I developed a strong interest in the subject of spanking in general. I mentioned it to my wife and she perked right up. Within a week or so, she acquired a large hairbrush and a thick leather strap. She informed me that she was going to teach me some lessons in domestic spanking, unless I absolutely refused. It took a while to get used to it, but after that it was quite appealing once in a while -- occasionally once a week. It never seems to get old. It always appeals.