What are Your favourite and least favourite spanking implements?

If I even thought about spanking my girl she would elbow me in the face as a reflect action. And not feel bad as my nose bled and call me a fucking idiot. She is a guy with a pussy and works out daily.

 

Everyone is different . I was the reluctant spanker as it was my partner who wanted it .
Its all safe within your own environment and its not about beating the life out of your partner .

 

Hand almost exclusively, sometimes lightweight paddles for change of pace Since my spankings are for erotic play, and not punishment or discipline, implements that would be really painful are out. Have had the hairbrush and tbe paddle with holes just for the experience, but prefer to avoid them.
Would never want anything that would leave bad bruises or marks, break the skin,or cause lasting discomfort. Some nice rosy skin and a burning sting are plenty.
The older woman I am in a relationship with would never do anything to hurt me or that I asked her not to. I met her through a now vanished online spanking site and we immediately hit it off when she said she'd never use anything like a cane or strap on a girl.

 

Just notes in general and not specific to the above .

I would like to think that any implements are tried on the spanker first and then agreed for future use

Boundaries are in place

And safe words are known between the 2 parties .

Please play safely .

 

It's hard to find good and real spanking sites. Plenty of spanking porn but sites where you can arrange to meet a group of like minded people to learn or to practice is hard. Got even worse during COVID. One group near me hasn't met in a couple of years and even when they did the spankings were R rated. Undies stayed on even though some of the people wore undies that were barely there. I prefer meeting with a group instead of taking a chance with a stranger. Couples or groups are easier. Just tough to find. I do prefer hand spanking when I give but I love to watch girls getting swtiched.

 

Sex and Spanking including CP with the cane can be quite separate . Some dont want the sexual side of things . Spanking is a vast subject from the very soft erotic spanking we do to the hardcore rip your arse to bits no sex beatings.

 

Cane

 

An old fashioned razor strap works well on my bare bottom

 

my favorite would be wooden paddle or cane but the one i hate is the tawse not used very offen

 

I highly recommend both of those devices.

The artist formerly known as Mistress Margaret.

 

I have seen pictures of those hairbrushes, and I would be very scared to get a hard spanking with one of them. The disciplinary wives club is very strict.

 

Outside of the hand, which seems to be everyone's favorite for giving and receiving, I'm always drawn to leather belts and straps for favorites as well. For least favorite, gotta be the wooden spoons, hair and bath brushes!!

 

That is the type of brush that makes naughty boys very nervous. The girl in the picture looks like she could blister a boys ass until he is begging for mercy.

 

And she has done just that! She has spanked many a male to tears with that very brush!

 

I like the idea of being spanked with hairbrushes and straps, one rigid and one somewhat flexible. Least favorite: birches and switches. I have not tried either of them and don't need to. My lady friend has volunteered to give me a thorough introduction to F/M spankings in the near future, which I am planning to accept.

 

Favorite is wooden hairbrush after a long time learning to like it, hard, and long. A thick leather strap is a like a decadent dessert, you know you shouldn't, but you get it anyway, always bare bottom.

 

I love a good paddling followed by a riding crop. Especially when I'm wearing tights or pantyhose. The paddle for a warmup, then the riding crop to raise some welts. The tight nylon-spanedx sliding over the welts is such a sooo dreamy of a sensation! Drag those fingernails over those welts baby! It just gets me into sub-space where I want more and more!