Least fave is the cane. I'm from south US, and just don't have any connection to it, or any feeling about it. For otk, the hand or a hairbrush. But my fave is probably the belt. It really gets its point across fast.
I hate spanking period. If anyone spanked my wife she would kick him on the nuts and possibly shoot or stab the motherfucker. I feel the same.
Call me old fashioned but I love when my husband uses his hand and when he folds his belt in half .. that's all I need but I love it
No.. I'm far more submissive.. and he's definitely dominant.. we compliment each other well in that regard
Because HF is open to all opinions asking in this post for most and least favorite. I am on the least side. Thanks for asking.
Umm...well....there is a reason it is called CONSENSUAL ADULT SPANKING. Forcing it onto someone constitutes assault. So, the consent of both parties is kind of a necessary element.
Understood. But if I happen too be browsing a porn site and the slapping begins I turn it off or switch videos. That is something I just cannot see as pleasureful.
Someone (sorta friend) sent me a video of her blowing someone. He repeatedly slapped her face while she sucked. I hated it. Then, he pulled her over his knee and spanked her. Hands only. She wiggled and stretched but got quite rosy. When he finished, she knelt and took his cum in her mouth before showing how wet she was. I liked watching her get spanked, but not hit. She told me that she liked a hand or a belt but nothing else. She said she also liked her tits slapped until she got nipple pierced.
Gives me the shivers to think about it. I've seen a couple videos of girls getting the switch. Oddly erotic to watch but I can't imagine what it feels like.
Is switch the same as the cane ? Or is it more like the birch . I guess UK and the US have different names for things ?
I know its sometimes difficult to adjust with the psyche but people are getting switched paddled or whatever because they have chosen that they want it. Like other forms of BDSM if its being done correctly they will have safewords to halt proceedings should it get too much for them. I will be doing some beginners stuff for spanking in the future but I will be putting it in the BDSM thread as these Spanking threads tend to be for more advanced or hardcore stuff.