What are young women looking for?

Some people here don't like to sugarcoat things. Welcome to HipForums. People like Fingermouse and myself...well, we don't dance around subjects. And undies was just implying that all women are bitches...because well...deep down, we are. I guarantee even the sweetest girl in the whole world will turn into a demon hellspawn when you piss her off. What you're looking for is the girls who recognize this and do their best to keep that demon under wraps.

As far as what young girls are into these days...pssh, I haven't a clue. When I was in high school it was long term relationships, I hear now it's all about flings, but I'm not sure how young you're asking about. As far as girls in their 20s...most of the ones I know are in serious relationships or married with kids these days. I live in a small town, though, and that's what small town girls do, they get married and have babies.

Anyway, best I can tell you is just go meet chicks. You might find someone looking for the same kinda thing you are. And if you don't...well, that's okay, too. Life doesn't always have to go according to plan, you know.

 

Well I said in the first place that I had a mental disability by saying that I had a caseworker. I wanted people right off the bat to the know I wasn't on the same level as everyone else. So to rub it in and call me 15ish kind of hurts.

As for the other stuff. She was basically telling me to go get laid. How is that polite or helpful?

I don't see people telling me like it is.

 

Not everyone here is going to walk on glass with you, regardless of whatever you have going on with your head. Sorry, that's life. It's a good lesson to learn from people who you don't know, hurts a little less. She wasn't telling you to go get laid, she was telling you to go MEET PEOPLE in real life. Getting laid comes much farther down the line, you have to talk to girls before you can even start a long term relationship.

 

"Getting laid comes much farther down the line, you have to talk to girls before you can even start a long term relationship."

I try talking to girls everyday. At the various places I shop. Most of them are friendly to me but they have boyfriends.

When I go out to bars and clubs it's a different story. As soon as you say hi, they give you a look like your trying to jump into their pants right away*. I say hi the same way I say hi to everyone its the context I suppose.

I said hi to a group of girls while walking with a friend. As I went by one girl defended my right to say hi while another took offense. I didn't want to get into the middle of it.

*I am not, and even if I was its not a very sex positive attitude to treat me all like I'm creepy just for hitting on you.

 

After Reading All Your Posts You Sound OK To Me...:2thumbsup:...Just Realise That In The End

The Only Person Who Can Help You, Is You Yourself....

Personally If I Had Relationship Issues, The Internet Would Be The Last Place On Earth I Would

Ask For Advice....

Good Luck Mate, And I Hope Everything Works Out For You....



Cheers Glen.

 

Girls are a tricky sort. You just have to find one who's not a vapid well...the word I'm thinking of starts with c. Anyway, there are girls out there like that, you just gotta keep trying.

 

Thank you Glen.

The only friends I have are two dudes who are schizophrenic and belong to the same community mental health program I do. One of them thinks that symbolically using macaroni piece as a way of is a good way to flirt with my case manager. The other isn't exactly anymore grounded. I have to convince them not to go to strip clubs so that we can go to real bars and meet women but the girls at the strip clubs their have them hypnotized to think that they have a chance.

Basically I don't have a lot of outside interaction with the world because I don't have many friends and even less interaction with women so I need to ask questions somewhere. The info I got from watching TV hasn't helped me any better than the internet when you think about it.

 

symbolically rubbing a macaroni piece that represents a clitoris.

 

Don't ever allow yourself to think you're not on the same level - disability or not - we're all on essentially the same level in the grand scheme of things. I was an MHP in a former life for the chronically mental ill and I would say that most my "clients" had a more enlightened world view than 90 percent of the people working in that field because of their disability (I hate that word by the way). Life is harder on some people - it's not fair, but that's the way it is. Just remember that some of these people who are counseling you - they've had it easier than you. Easier doesn't make someone better, but tribulation sure as hell can.

 

Do You Have Any Interests With Sports, Or Hobbies..??..One Of The Best Ways

To Meet People Of Both Sexes Is To Have A Common Interest, Then If A More

Social Interaction Is Going To Happen, It Will Emerge Naturally....



Cheers Glen.

 

"Don't ever allow yourself to think you're not on the same level - disability or not - we're all on essentially the same level in the grand scheme of things."

I am not assuming that I am on any level of disability but when somebody tells me just to go get laid or drive a car when I can't drive a car and I can't find a male friend nonetheless a female friend to get laid its very frustrating.


"Do You Have Any Interests With Sports, Or Hobbies..??..One Of The Best Ways

To Meet People Of Both Sexes Is To Have A Common Interest, Then If A More

Social Interaction Is Going To Happen, It Will Emerge Naturally...."

I keep telling myself that I am going to a book group. I think your right though.

 

You do have an interest - relationships. That is more than enough.

 

Yes, and that's why maybe a book club would be a good thing because I would have a spring board to discuss such a thing.

 

People please answer my breasts/cleavage question in the other thread.

 

Women who just want sex don't want a relationship at all...

Once a woman meets the right guy (or a guy she really likes, right or not) she'll do everything she can to hold on to him... at least a lot of girls will.

 

If you get a piece of advice and reject it, that might be interpreted as childish. Also, remember that by posting on this forum you are basically opening the window and shouting down into the street, so to say .... there is no telling what kind of an answer you might get.

A wise man once said that good advice should not be given for free but sold at exorbitant prices. To make myself clear: advice is something that can easily turn against the person that gave it.
The best advice is probably the one the makes you think and forces you to make up your own mind.

It is not like anything. Unfortunately there is no one recipe for any situation. Way too many variables.