What are young women looking for?

Some want long term relationships
Some want short term relationships
Some want someone to fuck
Some want love
Some want someone with a sense of humour
Some want someone with lots of money
Some want none of the above
Some want orgies
Some want to get married and get a puppy
Some want to stay at home and watch porn and eat cakes
Some want other girls
...

You get the idea

 

love and feelings. even the ones who tell you outrightly otherwise.

 

again : yes, that is what she was saying. (now i'm not saying she was right though)

sorry if i sounded aggressive, that wasnt my intention. i'm actually a very nice person and i was genuinely trying to help here. My question referred to the fact that u sound like u dont understand whats going on in girls' minds. Girls are human beings, just like u, we're not mysterious aliens whose thoughts can't be figured out.

well, i think that no one goes to a club originally hoping they're gonna find the love of their life there. it could happen, but most pple (men and women) just go there to find a one-night-stand.

exactly my point . and it applies for women and for men.

 

"Some want short term relationships" - It seems like thats hard to do isn't it? Let's think. If there was a guy or gal who was like, "yeah, I think I'll just date this person and see how it goes, it's probably just a kind of short term thing, probably 4 months and I break it off." Well 4 months goes buy and he/she breaks it off after finding an even better catch... well it seems like someone is inevitably going to get hurt.


"Anyways everything you hear about girls is the opposite of the truth I think.

That is the only truth you actually need young Padawan (Thats a Star Wars term in case you are not a nerd)"

See that's the part that makes girls seem like they really are like aliens.

 

uh, every time someone breaks up with someone who didnt expect it, it hurts, indeed. its, well, life! it happens because, as crazy as it sounds, not everyone gets involved in their very first relationship thinking "oh this is the one, its gonna last forever". that doesnt make them horrible pple.
maybe i don't get what u're saying, but i get the impression that u think it's terrible to commit to someone then break up with them later...

um, u forgot to give the complete quote, which said :

That is the only truth you actually need young Padawan (Thats a Star Wars term in case you are not a nerd)
.........That and everything out of their mouths is the opposite of the truth.
Same applies to the guys, but you are a guy so you dont care.

that should brings a whole different light to your thoughts...

 

the distinction between men and women is clearly nil.

 

the distinction between people in general is multiple, it has nothing to do with gender. some people are mean, some people are kind.

but i love men :tongue:

 

no no, i mean in regard to what we do rather than how we do it.

we all lie let's say - but some people may do it to protect another's feelings, whilst others may be malicious with their intention.

but the point is - we all share those same qualities on the grand scale of things.

suffice to say, men and women's intentions for love would be almost identical in my opinion.

but yes, mrs pedantic, no two people are the same. i don't have boobs, it frickin' sucks... :mickey:

 

omg i agree (except for the mrs pedantic part)

everyone is different :
[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TCLUkevdUBc

 

".That and everything out of their mouths is the opposite of the truth.
Same applies to the guys, but you are a guy so you dont care."






In my case maybe it's true that I mean the opposite of what I say because I am so complicated that I don't know what I mean most of the time. But I always thought guys were straight forward. But maybe I am wrong. A lot of guys talk really vulgar about sex and girls and stuff but they are really much more soft hearted than they let on so maybe that is kind of true.

I was talking about looking at a girls breasts and then getting rewarded by being kissed. I always thought girls never liked that and that tbey tended to say so? Am I wrong? Do girls really not complain about men looking at their chest? Did I misunderstand something. You show a small amount of cleavage in your pic. What do you think about that?

Everybody thinks I am an alien because of how I see things differently. I get called an alien by my friend because of how shameless I talk about sex.

 

lol... strong bad rocks

best. song. ever.

[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gz1DIIxmEE&feature=fvst

 

Oh, wait you are from Paris. Of course you are going to have a more refined way of looking at these things. The French look at relationships in terms of romantic possibilities-not all permanent. For Americans everything is very much thought of in terms of simplistic dichotomies. Tell me if I'm wrong.

 

that's not being complicated, that's being high. jk jk

i am comfortable with the idea that u and the rest of the forum can see that much amount of my cleavage. i realize my sig pic might shock kids but hey, they have to learn life too.
seriously, yea girls complain a lot about a lot of things, dont worry too much about that.

even in your link : no two people are not on fire.

u're wrong. lol really, so many stereotypes there i dont even know which one to pick first

 

When someone starts a sentence with "studies show . . . " it's time to be skeptical - they're either trying to convince you of something that isn't true, or they're trying to sell you something.

 

really, that's considered cleavage? i see maybe 10 percent of one top-boob.

the difference is that guys make jokes about being misogynistic while women just lie for no apparent reason.

back to the whole "everything they say is the opposite of the truth" thing. generally if a girl complains about something, it's exactly the thing that she likes the most.

 

Or, they've seen studies.

Such as this one.

 

I don't think they all want the same things, but there are trends. For many it does seem to be that they want experiences. Look at the stories they tell. I used to date a pilot/mountain climber/surf instructor/artist/race car driver/cow boy who took me to do this awesome thing. All women have stories like that, they never talk about how it ended, because they don't care, they care that they got to screw a test pilot and once he took them up in an experimental jet, they never intended to settle down and have kids with him. Makes me feel sorry for the guy they do marry, he has to deal with stuff like "Oh I can't deep throat, I used to do that with Chad all the time but this one time (bunch of stuff) and now I don't do it any more"

 

I'm sorry, but I have an innate distrust of polls and studies, especially those provided by Match.com (by the same company that brought you Ticket (Bastard) Master) (or Gallup for that matter) and published by USA Today. I work in the advertising business and you'd be amazed (or maybe not) at the lengths media outlets and polling firms will go to get the "right" answer for their clients.

 

"u're wrong. lol really, so many stereotypes there i dont even know which one to pick first"

Have you been to America? I went to France and I don't know how they think about relationships because I didn't make friends when I was there. I've also heard the opposite and that men and women their tend to be very cliquish and generally keep relationships within their own clique.

When I went to France their was a brand of ice cream that had these billboards that would show a topless woman phallicly enjoying their ice cream product. Now considering that ice cream is often a kids treat it certainly seemed as if the French think very differently on the subject of sex. I had a friend who stayed in France for a while and he said that nobody thought twice about giving/receiving a blowjob outside of marriage.

Bill Clinton/Anthony Weiner is as bad as our leaders get. The French on the other have DSK.

I have lived in the United States for 30 years and I have never heard explicitly from a woman that it was okay to ever look at a woman's breasts. It might be implied but never something ever said out loud to my knowledge.

Which is why I ask these questions about relationships and what people are looking for. I've never heard people really talk about relationships and what people want out of them. It actually comes as a shock sort of to be told that women aren't looking for what I am looking for. But most girls tell me they have a boyfriend when I ask them out so I am not sure that my caseworker is right. What does "boyfriend' mean then?

 

that they don't want to go out with you.