What about the vasectomy? My feedback.

Good evening!

I've read a few topics on contraception here and wanted to share my experience of the vasectomy I had in March 2024.

It's a contraceptive method that can be frightening because it's definitive. But I think it's mainly due to a lack of knowledge.

So if you still think you want to have children, it's not for you.
But if you think you're done with nappies... Maybe it's for you. This is clearly my case with two daughters aged 6 and 10.

A vasectomy is a minor surgical procedure that allows a person with testicles to become permanently sterile.

Why should this be done? Everyone has their own reasons. As far as I'm concerned, it's a question of finally taking charge of contraception. Not letting women take all the responsibility, as has been the case for too many years.

There are other solutions, temporary or permanent, with varying degrees of success.

If you want to find out more, you can make an appointment at a doctor's surgery with a surgeon who specialises in this field.
In my case, I only had a few follow-up appointments, the first of which was four months before the operation.

This is a compulsory period during which you are given an information booklet to tell you how it's going to be done, what's involved and your choice of whether or not to have your sperm preserved.

After these four months, you can confirm your decision with the surgeon, who will then suggest a date and, in my case, an appointment with an anaesthetist.

As far as I'm concerned, I wasn't ready to go down this road until I was 35, and I'd been thinking about it for many years without making up my mind.
But then I took the plunge and I don't regret it.

The operation is simple. In simple terms, a small hole is made in the skin of the bursa and then the vas deferens are cut. This is what carries the sperm into the semen.
Once these ducts have been cut, the spermatozoa remain trapped in the bursa (as if you were not having any sexual activity, alone or otherwise).
Of course, these ducts are then cauterised.
Two small stitches and you're done.

On the negative side, I was slightly uncomfortable for a few days, but from the next day you can use the equipment alone or with a partner.
All I needed was two paracetamol.

Then, two months after the operation, you have to have a spermogram to check that there are no more swimmers. Not only does this take time, but about forty ejaculations are also required.

After these two months, I had to go to a laboratory for analysis and I got the results in the afternoon, I had become sterile.


I explain my story in much more detail here
Vasectomy : my feedback

Don't hesitate to ask me questions, I'll do my best to answer them.

 

Don’t schedule on Monday or Friday!

 

I got snipped long before the OP was born. Best thing I had done to me sexually. No more scare of pregnancy. My spouse upon seeing the lab report fucked me almost into oblivion. For the next twenty years I filled her pussy with load after load of spermless cum enjoying every relaxed moment of it.

 

Why shouldn't you do that?

 

(Monday) Doctor tired after long weekend and might be sluggish..(Friday) Doctor in a hurry to start weekend with no patience to make procedure smoothly! Mine was on Friday and had complications getting the second vase tube to surface which later caused bleeding and swelling! Was hurting for about 10 days after blood clot the size of a lemon finally broke down with meds.

 

I had one years ago, i had no issues and after 30 days when i went back for the test no sperm was found and the wife and i have been enjoying worry free creampies ever since.

 

Had mine done almost 20 years ago, when we knew we’d had as many kids as we wanted. As others said, quick and near painless procedure in my case. My urologist had told me he was going to be doing his own within a few weeks of doing mine, which sounded wild to me!

As for my own, recovery was easy, and soon my wife and I were at it a LOT. Since I had to fully shave before the operation, she sucked my unusually smooth balls as soon as I was cleared for sex, then we commenced with the worry-free fucking!

 

I had a vas in my early to mid 40s and it went very well and was liberating. My wife was a nurse in a urology practice — the speciality that performs vasectomies. You want a specialist because even though it is a safe and fairly simple operation, identifying the vas deferens is easy only for a surgeon who has performed a jillion vasectomies. A surgeon who has been through a urology residency will have done a jillion. Even then, some urologists are more skilled than others, so to the extent possible ask around and use google etc to find surgeons with high rates of success and low rates of complications. Also, the aftercare is simple and of brief duration, and will seem to some like something that can be blown off. But my wife could tell dozens of stories about post surgical complications that almost always resulted from the patient not following instructions. Do as they say and you’ll be fine.

 

Just don’t do procedure on Monday or Friday!