Were you spanked as a child?

I'm sorry you went through this.

 

Well, I deserved most of it, Lol!

 

I did too. I think that's how I learned fast reflexes and hand eye coordinations. Or my mum was slow as she tried to wallop me lol. I quickly learned to shield my bum at the right moment and scurry away and I remember her yelling at me to stop doing that. yeah righto mum. I can't remember the age, I couldn't tell you when it stopped. I guess it's not very nice, but I could imagine getting frustrated with kids, all that screaming and crying and carry on. SMH.

 

LMAO!

 

I developed fast reflexes too because when I got too old to spank, my mom threw stuff at me

 

Damn right I was spanked, only around here it is called "a whooping".

 

Were you spanked as a child? Yes
I was also slapped in the face as a child by mother.

Do you think it had anything to do with your enjoyment of spanking in sex? NO

I do think it has something to do with my enjoyment of getting beat up by women in a boxing class though.

 

I was spanked a few times by my father. Mom got a little more grouchy and pinned me to the floor with her weight to smack me. She was the one to avoid. So as you can guess no one touched me once I was like 10 or 11 and as big as her.

No sexual fun from spanking for me.

 

The OP's theory/hypothesis is different compared to my own childhood experience. First off, I was always fully clothed on those rare occasions where my mother would resort to spanking my butt. Nothing about it felt arousing, even though I knew the sensation of having an erection from very early on. Psychologically, I was fully aware that I was being punished and it's never fun, so no psychological arousal would accompany the whole experience.

My mother always made it a point never to hit me in the face, but the ones who would go for slapping me in the face were my teachers at school. Again, no sexual connection made there.

The kind of spanking I do to my girlfriend, for instance, is a soft, light variety that doesn't really turn the butt cheeks overly red. I'm not really into the whole pain play. I like the spanking to be fun and playful, not actually painful.

 

I think that spanking in the sexual context has become more popular over recent years. Perhaps it is no coincidence that these people were NOT spanked as a child.

 

Your teacher slapped you in the face?? WTF?!

 

Sure. Had a wooden spoon broke on my ass once. My dad definitely slapped me around a bit, more times than I can remember really. Think I probably deserved it most of the time.

I... Have no idea if it influenced... The fuck? How should I know?

 

Not spanked hard enough apparently

 

Nah man, it was kind of common back in those day where I come from. Everything's changed over the years, and now it's the teachers who are scared shitless of kids.

 

I can see getting paddled back then (think they should bring it back), but a teacher slapping a child is a little too crazy. First I've heard of that.

 

Different culture, different rules, I suppose.

 

I was spanked as a child. By hand when I was younger and then with a belt when I got a little older. Always over clothes.

This is going to sound weird and like the intro to porn but it’s a true story. My dad would hit me with a belt and I would start mocking him as he did it. I’d laugh and tell him that it didn’t hurt. He’d hit me harder and harder and I’d just keep laughing at him. Eventually it freaked him out so much that he quit. Back then it was just me being a brat and pretending to be tough. I wasn’t aroused or anything by it.

But now.... I love getting spanked. It’s a major turn on for me. My husband has only done it a few times with his hand (not very hard) but I really want more. I’d love a paddle or belt. Nothing that will break the skin or anything but I want it to hurt.

I don’t know if it’s related or not.

 

yes... barebutts were the worst

 

I was never spanked as a child but my friends were so I got some questions to ask
If possible to help me understand what i missed, if any parent can answer my questions just email me please, if you need my email address just say

 

had my rear whipped with a razor strap so many time as a kid you best be a big bad ass to whip MY Ass.
Cause me to get a nut, can anger do that?