Were you sexually ruined by a former girlfriend/boyfriend?

When I was 18, I had a gorgeous blonde girlfriend who was absolutely insatiable. I really didn't know how lucky I was at the time. There was no such thing as the word "no" between us when it came to sex, and she was an equal participant when it came to initiating which I loved. If I even put my hand on her thigh while she was driving, she was pulling off somewhere secluded minutes later and tearing my clothes off. Blowjobs were a staple in her diet and it was not out of the ordinary for her to pull me out of a party to give me car head. She would have sex almost anywhere too, which could get risky, but was so frickin exciting. She once pushed her shorts aside and rode me on a kitchen chair while her entire extended family was in the backyard barbecuing. We both lived at our parents house at the time, so whenever I had been visiting, she would always walk me downstairs as I was leaving. There in the hallway she would push her skirt up and bend over, bracing herself against the walls, while I had my way with her. The girl was just a dream.

Sadly, we broke up after a couple years, went our separate ways. I ran into her a couple years later at a bar and she tells me she goes both ways now. I instantly imagine us together again as a couple bringing girls home together. If we weren't se young at the time, I'm convinced that's how it would have been.

Anyway, we left together that night at the bar, we park in some high school parking lot to talk, but she says I can't f*ck her because she has a new boyfriend. So she reaches under her seat and pulls out one of those small booklets of erotic short stories and hands it to me. She tells me to read a lesbian story to her out loud, then pulls her pants down, spreads her legs, and proceeds to masterbate for me.

So, while I've had many memorable sexual moments in my life so far, this girl ruined my expectations quite a bit.


P.S. If you just read through this post and were shaking your head the whole time wondering if I was describing you, we should talk. Ha!

 

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There seems to be a few threads today that require a big bucket of popcorn

 

Ha, I wish I could sit back and watch all those moments again, although it would be more fun to relive them.

It's funny how you sometimes can't possibly know how good you have it until you have a lot of other partners/scenarios to compare. She's still the only girl I've ever know who has taken such a proactive approach to my recovery time after sex. If she wanted it (again), and she usually did, she took it into her hands or mouth and got me back up quickly. Call it youthful silliness, but this one time after sex, she rolled me softly between her hands like she was thinning out play-dough, and it worked almost immediately. She laughed and got such a kick out of how quick it worked, that it jokingly became one of her nonverbal ways (while she giggled) of showing me she was ready for the next round.


Be curious to hear everyone else's stories too. Got my popcorn ready, or lube, whatevs.

 

No, but I sure had some fun.

 

I love my wife more than life itself and we'll be celebrating our 35th anniversary in a few days. However, sex with her will never measure up to the last girl friend that I had just before my wife and I met.

That girl friend was a virgin when we met, but after being together only a few weeks, we started fucking regularly. Once she got a taste for it, she was insatiable! We fucked almost daily and, occasionally, two or three times a day. She'd go out of her way to find places where we could fuck undisturbed. She wasn't much for foreplay either. She just wanted my cock in her right away and for as long as I could keep going. She blew me occasionally and I went down on her a few times but mostly, it was just vanilla cock-in-pussy sex (which is exactly what both of us wanted.)

Here's the brass ring. She was one of those women who would cum so intensely that she'd pass out. I'd be pounding away and she'd suddenly go rigid. Then she'd just go completely limp under me; out cold. After a minute or two, she'd come around and everything would be fine. The amazing thing is I discovered in short order that she wanted me to keep fucking her after she passed out, so that she'd still feel me pounding inside her as she woke up!

When we fucked in cowgirl position and she passed out, I'd have to catch her as she collapsed forward on me. Usually, I'd just gently roll her off of me, spread her out into a comfortable position (just like a big rag doll), then slide back inside her and continue fucking her until she woke up.

Heaven. Absolute heaven.

 

I wish I was you!


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Well, there was a major down side. When you fuck that frequently, for that long (over six months), with NO birth control, well... you do the math. Neither of us were ready (or wanted) to be a parent, so we paid for an abortion and broke up shortly thereafter.

There's no such thing as a free lunch.

 

Im 32 and a few years ago I met this girl who was 17 turning 18 and we hit it off pretty well, she was a friends sister and we met secretly at first but then once it all came out we didn't care. I can tell you this girl was dirty and was a perverted girl, she loved sex and orgasms. we did everything, she dressed up as a school girl for me, blew me anytime I wanted and didn't once reject sex at any stage. Id have a shower and next thing I know she walks in the bathroom and watches me while playing with herself, then join me. we talked dirty all the time. Id get messages while at work on what she wants to do to me. I've had heaps of girlfriends and Im currently with a boring one now. She really set the bar on what I want in a girl. Ive never met one like her before.

 

Can't say I was ruined, but got the wrong mindset. The first girl I had sex with was the girl next door. She was a few years older, started with her teasing me in her bikini, then showing a little more. Then one day she told me I hadn't showed anything. Went from showing to touching, then sex. Never kissed once, just played. Started out she let me slide in a couple of strokes, and told me that was enough. Leaving me high and dry. She taught me a lot in a summer. When I started dating I thought all girls were like her.

 

I wouldn't say ruined but no one has ever lived up to the standards set by one gal that I was with for a couple of years. This gal would do anything that you could think of bj's anywhere, anal, fisting, large objects, you name it she was up for it.many of the things we did she would bring up on her own. Was always a fun time with her.

 

At 24 I became involved with a woman up the street from were I grew up.
She was divorced for two years at 38. I had known her off and on since I was 12.

One man I knew at the time told me "boy, that woman is going to ruin you. You can't understand today, and I wouldn't even try to convince you, but this is going to ruin you for life..".

How right he was. She loved sex, loved to take long weekends in out-of-the-way places and spend the entire weekend in bed.
I've never known another like her. And now in my late 50's I've never had orgasms like those we shared. Ever.

 

My first wife was my first fuck! After about ten years of intense fucking, she threw it up to me that she had fucked with several other guys before me. This nearly destroyed me because I had thought she was a virgin when we married and that my dick had been the only one to invade her pussy.

It was a long and grievous process I went through, coming to terms with the reality of it all, but I finally made it. Now, I would NOT want to fuck a virgin or be sexually involved with any woman unless she had been fucked by lots of other guys before me.

Some may find this strange, but it was the only road to survival which was open to me. And that is why, today, I love sharing my wife's pussy with other men! It reconfirms to me the fact that our relationship is not based on the fact that we are, or ever have been, exclusive fuckers!

But, I do have to wonder what it would have been like for me if my first wife had not admitted her history. Would I still be fucking her and taking joy in the fact that I had been the only one to fuck her?

I guess I've been lucky!

 

A young lady at about age 20 "discovers" her sexuality and wants to enjoy it until the novelty wears off, like buying a new car and driving it all around until you get tired of it.

I wish I had understood that when I was a young guy. I always tried to be a "gentleman" and "develop a relationship" and "be respectful" when in fact the girl just wanted a romp, and by the time I had warmed up to her, she had lost interest and wandered away. This happened over and over. Also, all guys get burned by the tease who likes to get men worked up just to tell them to bug off at the last moment, because it boosts her ego.

So men get ruined in that way. They are burned by a tease and by social messages calling men "sexually predators" so when a girl wants a fling the guy is too cautious to respond. Then the girl loses interest and moves on to a guy who DOES respond, a gigolo who only beats her when he is drunk and the girl says, why are men such brutes?

 

You're one of those people they refer to as an incel, aren't you, Cayuse?

 

I was going to ruin your thread, but almost started crying and deleted it all. Suffice to say, "it's not fair".

Also, you're an obnoxious **** and should discover porn of the type that uses videos and not text.

 

That last sex party I went to, the s/m party, introduced pain and submission. So now my main fwb pales in comparison to that lol. It's like going on the merry-go-round over and over again, like a lot of married couples *yawn*.

 

Well, thats ruined!
And theres me thinking you were all heart!

 

bitch ruined my virginity

 

I used to love to masturbate. LOVE. But for a long time I had a partner who was so damn' good with his hands that I could find no real pleasure in fingering myself. I gave up my twice-daily habit. Eventually, I moved away, and I went without for long enough that I could enjoy going solo again. Then, I met my boyfriend playing a video game online. When we got to the point where we were masturbating together on the phone or by cam, I stopped wanting to do it by myself as it was just not as satisfying at all. Masturbation only made me miss him, and I looked forward to meeting with him and exploring our sexuality together. Once we started meeting up to spend time together, and we got to enjoy each other's bodies, neither of us got what we needed out of masturbation again. It's just not the same. He can only come from it about twice a week if he really works at it. I find that I exhaust myself and still am left wanting. When we can be together, the chemistry is explosive, we consume each other. We ignite each other. Finally, we feel satisfied. The only reasons I even bother to masturbate now are that I don't want us to drift sexually. Given the distance between us, mutual play over the phone is important bonding time. Also, his penis is a little too thick because after a year of celibacy, I just don't open up like I used to. I use a toy that is slightly bigger than his penis so that we will fit together better faster. But yes. Basically, two separate men have ruined masturbation for me via fantastic sex.