Were you always Bi, or talked into trying it?

In my life , I have been fortunate to have had many different sexual experiences all leading up to trying Bi.
Until that point, I never considered it because I always had many women, easily available. When my wife said we were "over the hill" , as far as sex goes, I told her to speak for herself because I'll be horny to the day I die and wouldn't be surprised if sex killed me. I wouldn't be the first. After accepting my fate and with limited choice, trying bi with another horny senior friend didn't seem like the worst thing in the world. In fact, it sounded like the logical choice, so I accepted this new thilling aspect of my senior years.
Have you thought about it . Have you acted on it?

 

always bi from my first sexual experience . no one needs to nor can they talk me into anything i dont want.

 

I've pretty much always been bi and since I was nine and had my first experience with dick and has been my normal mode and way to have sex ever since.

 

Talked and coaxed into a threesome with another guy, and then just see what happens. I was nervous to say the least. I went along with the idea mostly because I didn’t want to lose my girlfriend, my first serious girlfriend who also liked girls. To keep that going I would at least accept the threesome with another guy.
To say the least things went very well.

 

Always been bi, even since before I started to get a handle on what sex was, when I was so young and stupid--er, naive that I couldn't have found my ass using both hands.

First "sexual" (snort! guffaw!) partner was a girl, second was a boy, third was that girl and boy together.

 

I think I was probably always bi; I don't recall anybody trying to talk me into anything.

 

I think I was born bisexual, but repressed my gay side from 13 onwards, after my boyfriend of five years and I broke up (we had a lot of sex from 8 years of age onwards that started out as normal childhood homosexual experimentation). It wasn't until my first girlfriend broke up with me at 30 that I allowed my gay side out again to myself. It actually exploded out of me, and not as any distraction from my powerful grief: it was the excuse I needed to allow my powerful gay desires to live again. I have lived a bisexual life since then, though now at 62 I only have sex with guys.

I've coincidentally been thinking a lot about how my bisexuality manifested again back when that girlfriend broke up with me (we were going to get married) because she just passed away a couple of weeks ago. On a 5 month road trip thousands of miles away for my life after that breakup to find myself, I think I finally felt free enough to be myself. My bisexual self.

 

Growing up I wondered what sex with another guy would be like but never acted on it. Once when my second wife was giving me a blow job she slide a finger up my butt and rubbed my prostate. It felt great. We progressed to using a dildo. After an extremely satisfying session, she told me a real cock would feel better and I should try it. After much discussion I decided to. She was right. We still have sex several times a week but I also have sex with my boyfriend several times a week. I am so grateful that she suggested it and encouraged me.

 

I tend to believe that the people we surround ourselves with are going to determine whether we are heterosexual, bisexual, or gay. I feel all of those traits are in every man, what triggers one or the other is the people we allow into our lives. I personally have evolved through all three myself. For 36 years I was a heterosexual, married with children and never once considered being sexual with another man. Then certain things happened in my life, and I was approached by a gay man that asked me if I'd like a blowjob. I agreed and it was the best I'd ever had to date. For the next two months I was stopping by his apartment twice a week for blowjobs afterwork. It wasn't very long before I was sucking cock myself, something I'd never thought would ever happen and I enjoyed it. For the next 20 years I'm having oral sex with men and women as I began evolving towards being bisexual. My present wife turned me on to anal sex with toys to eventually ask me during a threesome with our regular guy if I would allow him to fuck me in the ass. I was a bit reluctant at first being that my ass was a virgin (to a real cock) but had fucked a number of women in the ass and saw how much they enjoyed it. Having experienced it that evening and many times since my wife and I agreed that I was now fully bisexual. Over the next few years, I was having regular oral and anal sex with both men and women as I was enjoying my new sexuality. Then my present wife lost her desire to have sex due to seriously bad knees, sex for her was more painful than it was enjoyable as I began to only have sex with other men. I believe I've now entered into being gay as I found myself enjoying sex with other men to be far more enjoyable than having sex with women. Am I gay? I don't know, if you met me, you wouldn't think so but at 61 years of age I only have sex with other men now.

 

It was an offer I couldn't refuse.I asked my wife to peg me for the longest time and she always refused. She enjoyed(back when) I played with her asshole, but would never mess with my hairy ass. It wasn't until she asked me to try Bi with our Friend.
They,both him and my wife, had suggestedI try it for a couple of reasons. Our old friend hasn't had sex with anyone for a couple of years, after his partner moved west. He was old and lonely. I was old and horny. My wife made me an offer. If I would do it with our friend, she would peg my ass for me. I crossed the line and messed around with him. All I could see in my mind was my wife finally fucking my ass for me and I caved. First time, he was sucking my cock and when I came, he came in his pants from the excitement and I didn't blow him. When I told my wife, she demanded that I return the favor. Next time we got together , I sucked his cock while my wife sat on the edge of her seat watching. She was more excited than I was, I was more nervous than anything. We did it and later that night my wife put on the strapon and fucked my ass, as promised. I was hooked from the first time.

 

I was curious for a long while before I tried it. My first was a man who asked me several times before I finally gave in to him. If he hadn't persisted I probably would have eventually but glad he did.

 

I would say that I have been bi all my life. As a young kid I remember getting naked with my best mate although it never went further than that.It was just the thrill of being naked and barefoot together.

During my 20's I was very attracted to a good mate called Casey. We were working together and shared similar likes such as drinking, smoking and going barefoot! It never went further than that although with the benefit of hindsight I am certain that he was giving "signals" that he did want it too. I think I was repressing my bi side very heavily at this time as I was unsure of where my life could lead if I went along that path. Whilst both of us didn't have girlfriends at the time we were both getting plenty of sex from friendly girls!

From my late 20's and 30's it was meeting my future wife, getting married, building a home, having two beautiful children and all that entails. There really wasn't time to seriously contemplate exploring my bi side, although for certain the thought was still there.

As I got into my late 30's, early 40's an opportunity arose when my wife was away overseas. After a Christmas work party a good workmate offered to help me get home in my slightly inebriated state! I won't go into detail here as I think I may have mentioned it before. Suffice to say it was summer in Australia, damn hot weather around Christmas and we showered (separately) and wore minimal afterwards (at my suggestion ). One thing led to another and we ended up in bed mutually masturbating first and then into a 69 to experience sucking cock. It was his first time as well.
We have continued meeting up since and enjoying some good naked M-M fun together.

Now in my 60's I am very comfortable with my bi side. Wife has no idea and the only person that does know is my mate. I've had a few other experiences mostly at our local nudist beach. Giving and receiving blowjobs...it's been a lot of fun and I didn't immediately turn "gay" after I first had another guys cock in my mouth. I do regret that I hadn't tried earlier especially with my mate Casey......

 

lucky you xxx

 

For myself it was porn exposure..Desensitization basically..I was straight all of my life, and then I saw a bi porn and was riveted..I wanted to look away but couldn't..Being very well endowed myself, I was curious about other large cocks, comparing, touching them, and eventually having one in my mouth..It can be a lot to process but the curiosity always grew stronger..It wasn't always there, but it always came back..I HAD to know..I had never been attracted to men before that, and had I never been into porn I think I'd never be interested in it as I never looked at men that way..But I took a different path, and it made me want it more the more I watched..Gay porn that was never hot to me, eventually became hot..I still loved my gf but it became my secret craving..We had a great sex life still, but I wrestled with the fact I loved watching men have sex..I started watching porn for the women and pussy as a horny young man, but what I learned years later, the true star of porn is COCK..It pushed me to finally try it and it opened a whole new world of pleasure I never knew existed..Its still my secret but I am accepting I'm 100% bisexual

 

When I was in college there was a guy, who had told few of my friends that he'd invite his buddy over sometimes and they'd watch porn and blow each other, mostly just because neither of them could get a girl.
At the time I remember thinking "that's weird, but interesting".
Probably 8 years later, I was then married with kids, I started thinking about their arrangement for some reason, maybe there was a dip in our sex life, I don't remember. Anyway, that particular guy had moved away, so couldn't talk to him about it. I couldn't get the thought of sucking dick out of my head.
I started searching the internet for how to meet someone else looking for that kind of thing and discovered Craigslist.
Found a guy who wanted to meet up about 15 minutes drive from my work.
We met, I got in his car and I sucked his dick a little, freaked out and split before he came.
I've sucked off 7 guys since then, including that first guy multiple times.
So, I guess I didn't really consider it an option until my late 20s. Before that it just sounded weird to me.

 

When I was about eifgt, I ended up in boarding school. My roommate and I had virtually nothing in common, other than a proclivity for sleeping nude and jacking off. In no time at all we were stroking each other's cocks. It wasn't long before I discovered that some of us were sneaking into each other's rooms at night after Lights Out; and I quickly progressed to sucking cock. While I'm sure for most of us it was simply situational homosexuality, I reveled in it; I loved giving head. It wasn't until after high school that I ever had the opportunity to touch a woman, but I never lost my taste for cock. I needed no persuasion; I've never not been Bisexual.

 

Always bi but also kinda mutually talked into it.
I wasn't really attracted to boys when I was younger. A friend and I were in our hard on all day years as teenagers (14) and the curiosity took over.
One night at a sleepover at my friend's house things took a turn. We were talking about the girls we liked and what we fantasized about them. We realized that we were both hard as a fucking rock. We decided to compare cock size, so we pressed them together to see. I was a little bit bigger. Then we decided to grab each other's dick to see how it felt. We did it real quick OK. His cock felt really warm. We started talking about what getting sucked might feel like. So we decided to try it just to know what a mouth feels like on a cock. He put my cock in his mouth and sucked a little. I told him to move it in n out of his mouth. It felt amazing, but he stopped real quick and jumped up to get his sucked. So I got on my knees as he was guiding it into my mouth. He pushed in real quick and made me gag. I told him to not do that and let me figure it out. I started moving up and down on it trying not to go to gagging depth. I moved up and down about a dozen times and he kinda moaned as a warm creamy shot absolutely filled my mouth. Without even thinking about it I swallowed it all down. His head was spinning with pleasure. Once he calmed down we were talking about possible trying fucking. We got some coconut oil and lubed up my cock and his ass. I slid in slowly all the way. I started to slowly pump in and out, I felt the tingles very quickly and started having my first ever orgasm. My pumping turned into weird jerky motions as I didn't know what to do. I fucking came in my friend's ass.
20-30 minutes later after talking about everything that happened, low and behold our dicks are hard again. Round 2 I came in his mouth and he came in my ass.
We had several nights like this throughout summer break. Blowjobs almost everyday. Swallowing every single time he shot in my mouth!
But I held down my bi side until my early thirties and wish I hadn't.

 

I’ve always had bi impulses but never acted on them till recently. Like I’ve said in other posts when the sex stopped at home I started to explore my curiosity and took the plunge. I’m still learning exactly what I want and what I feel.