I have been going with a lovely lady for six weeks and we are mature people she is frightened to have sex because I am well endowed we have kisses and cuddle and she get me erect and when she looks at my penis she tells me that I am huge and I will hurt her,if I do no want to force the issue I may lose her.I have had problems in the past with other women some were attracted to my size but some were worried like my girl friend .
yer fucked Buddy! Just kidding 9 inches, 11 inches? You need to promise her you wont cram it in, at least at first till she is ok with it or ever if she cant go the length. And dont try anything funny! She has probably only been with those of average size and to suddenly see it probably does worry her, she needs to trust you and you need to show her trust. Try that and let us know what happens and remember your size is probably not gonna win you any awards, your trust and care for her is.
Thanks for your reply I will take it slowly she did say I wonder what it will feel like inside me I am awesome size some women in the past have said they have felt sore afterwards but I will be gentle with her maybe use some oil,I will let you know how I get on.
Big dicks are fun as long as they are not attached to one. Seems fishy that you are "mature" but haven't handled the issue before.
I tend to have to take things easy when I'm entering a girl for the first time. I'm 8.5 inches and most of the girls I've been with haven't seen bigger. Just make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Lube helps though!