Weird...

This is some good advice.
You'll grow out of it eventually.

Personally I think psychedelics are what first helped me to actually break that thought loop of that I have to care what others think.
But I don't suggest it unless you look into it yourself.. some people might just dig themselves deeper.

 

yeah i really want to start doing physchedelics but i have no money/connections for them, i'm sure one day that will change though.

 

you have the rest of your life to try em

 

Same though the first time I took psyches was really eye opening and I didn't fully grasp the lesson of my trip until after a couple of weeks of heavy introspection. That is why I prefer to take psyches alone. While tripping with friends is unforgettable and will provide plenty of good memories, you will ultimately gain more from the experience and truly utilize the teaching power of psyches if you ingest them on your own. Some things you just have to handle and go through by yourself.

My advice isn't to stop caring about what other's think, as I myself care quite a bit about the feelings of others. If the problem is that you aren't socializing when you are high, then just start socializing. Open your mouth and start putting words together, it isn't too hard, and if it doesn't make that much sense it isn't a problem either as it is bound to make all the other high motherfuckers geek out pretty hard. I used to zone out and get really quiet too, after I started smoking more regularly though I was able to build a tolerance to the point where I could fully socially engage with everyone without worrying about if they know I'm high or not.

High or not, the only one preventing themselves from talking with others is you. Marijuana is not the one to blame, as it's only in your head. I'm sure everyone else is high to the point where they don't mind if you zone out and quiet down. I would much rather have a silent pondering stoner companion than one who takes a couple hits and won't shut the fuck up about problems with their significant other

 

^^ great words

 

thanks, great advice i really think that i should just try to socialize more and i will grow out of this.

 

You need a girl.

It cures all.

 

:smilielol5: oh man...I dunno...from your recent experiences that creates loads of other problems...Ive got some shitty girl problems that Ive dug myself into but thats for chat...this thread is to tell yer man..well what everyone else said basically, Connor hit the nail on the head.

 

im the exact same way, op. psychedelics do that to you big time. but everyones different i guess.
when high, just dont worry, think silly. and for me when i know im getting awkward, i just act like the typical pot-head from movies like Dazed & Confused as a facade basically. its fake but better than being awkward.

 

stop smoking... or just get fucking blown out of your mind, and control yourself.

you're just a kid, control will come in due time.


or, dip into some other form of drugs... or possibly, try making special baked goods, who knows, maybe its the smoking that tweaks you out?

 

I dont smoke around my friends any more becuz like you I get quiet and weird so I just smoke b4 going to bed or when am alone at home.

 

It's not even that you should start socializing more. You just have to be more comfortable with yourself. You don't ALWAYS have to have something to say.

I have social anxiety problems too, and I don't talk a lot, but it doesn't really matter. I definitely talk when I have something important to say but, aside from that, I don't make it a point to try to have something to say, at all times, because it doesn't really matter.

 

QFMFT

just dont smoke if you have stuff to do...