Weird Request from Girlfriend..

No drugs!!

I know you said no alcohol, but when I was new to anal... two glasses of wine and butt plugs went a long ways toward helping me relax.

Without the alcohol, it's all about butt plugs, time, and patience. And don't forget to give her a vibe!

 

Practice makes perfect... keep trying

 

Not that I am endorsing drug use, but coke definitely helps you ease into anal sex. First off it makes you feel uninhibited and more nasty. Second, cocaine numbs your body a bit so the woman does not feel the pain as much. I am 6 inches in girth, pretty thick, and was able to do anal with women who were 4'11" and 5'2". They were both petite and had a hard time taking be sober but were able to and loved it when we here high.

 

how big are the plugs at the smallest point that you warm up with? just trying to gauge where i am, my guy is like 7 3/4" in girth or abit bigger maybe it was 8"

 

By the way, you should marry your girlfriend an hold on to her like grim death.

 

Get a prescription for flexeril (muscle relaxer) and then take a 10 mg valium to take the edge off. Just be sure to tell your doctor why you are using it.

 

Prep time prep time prep time.. start slow with your smallest finger with plenty of lube and work up to a second and so on over time..

Never give it dry.. that is just... wrong (unless she is into that sort of pain)

 

amyl nitrate poppers

KY Jelly

though if it was me and the girl would have admitted that she was in that much pain and didnt enjoy it, I wouldnt be interested in doing it anymore.

 

dont suggest serious drugs - a glass of wine or 2 is ok, but not being stone drunk. what's the point, need to enjoy it together. getting everyone super hot about it helps alot, and work up to it with fingers and toys first. it's all in the mind...

 

lube and weed

 

He's already said it ain't no big deal. It's his Doris who wants to try again, probably because she saw him enjoy himself so she wants to give him that pleasure again. Sounds like she's not against and is for it and wants to keep at it. So it's practice. The best way is to make her cum a few times for vaginal or clitoral. Get her sexed up and panting. She will be more relaxed, horny and probably a bit more daring

 

Stretch dat ass. Think of it like stretching your ears for gauges. Same principle. If you don't have the scratch for various sizes in butt-plugs you might can go vegan and use varying sizes in vegetables. Just a thought.