So I'm a female. And I do watch porn sometimes. But here's my issue. Anytime I watch it, I have to cum when the guy cums (which is not how it works in my real life). And I can NOT stand when a female is rubbing on her junk in the video. It just...bothers me? Idk. Wanted to see if anyone had a similar thing or if this could be explained. Thanks in advance!
I think probably a large percentage of we men have a problem really visualizing that women can cum at all, because there is no such obvious ejaculation with women. I know some women squirt when they cum but I've never achieved that for a woman during sex. Okay so I'm not the greatest lover but I don't like to see sex as a performance. I've brought a woman to orgasm and none of them bothered to fake it for me, but I've also had some pretty dismal sex too. I think there has been only one time I've had simultaneous orgasm with a woman. I know women have the capacity to have extended orgasms whereas for men it's obviously one climax and...
For many women, self manipulation is the only way they can achieve orgasm. This is true of my wife. She is quite sexual, and we have a lot of fun and clearly she enjoys intercourse but when she wants to orgasm she will rub away. I absolutely love it. We both like to cum while looking into each others eyes. That is powerfully intimate.
I prefer to finish when the woman does as well. Biologically, a woman is more likely to get pregnant if she orgasms up to a minute before/after the guy. It's likely a type of sexual selection for pleasurable men (the 'sexy son' theory). So, humans are conditioned to find orgasms arousing, so they orgasm too. Also, one of my porn pet peeves.. towards the end when the guy pulls away and jerks himself off and he takes aaaggggeeesss... it's not hot to see a guy unable to cum!
I totally agree with that. Especially the dude jerking it. It throws the whole mood off. Also, I'm a Libra too!
I guess I see where you’re coming from I prefer to cum when the woman cums. Although to think about it I have came when I seen a guy cream pie or bust all over the ass cause that’s something I like to do but not because the guy turns me on in any way shape or form. I guess at that point I’m thinking of myself doing that to someone else. Like earlier I watched porn and I came when the female started squirting all over the place. (Hot!)
I like to edge and cum when couple on video cums. Likewise, when reading porn I like to cum at the climax of the sex scene too
Masturbation itself is fine. What I've read is that if your doing it watching porn scene after porn scene, you can overload your dopamine receptors. To the point where when your with a partner, they may not be enough to excite you because you are used to one hot scene and person after another. Called porn induced ED.
