Been a long time for us. Weed is most definitely a sexual enhancer for both of us but everything else about it we just don’t care for. Seems like some will land in our lap every 1-10 years. We try it. Re-notice all the sexual and non sexual effects. If the good outweighs the bad, we try it several times, maybe even till it’s gone. Usually however, the spaced-out, mind-wandering dopiness, dryness in EVERY mucus membrane, and brain-fog hangover are just not worth the bit of heightened pleasure to us. But yes, we do agree, it’s a pretty good O.
I'm in my 70's and still get very horny when high from smoking weed. I would smoke 24/7 if I could afford it!! Lol
I only recently discovered this phenomenon, now every time I smoke I get a semi without even thinking about it
I don't smoke or vape but use edibles. Capsules that are hybrid with equal amounts of CBD and THC. That or tinctures with THCO derived from Delta 8 plus CBD with it. Either combination can make me horny as anything and heightens the sensations. I have to plan for it though. It can take a few hours for my body to digest and process the cannabis before it will take effect. When it does, oh shit, I feel good. But I also need to be in the proper frame of mind too. Like the other day I was really anxious and worry some. I dosed up and waited. A few hours later I felt a lot better but it had no effect on my sex desire. It's happened before when I was like that and didn't have a sexual reaction to the cannabis. Si I believe mind set has a lot to do with it too. If I have a good mind set weed will amp me up and at orgasm I'll nearly pass out it is so intense.
Is there a name for the recreational edibles you describe. I do prefer to smoke or vape as I can wait till the kids to go bed, catch a buzz then find something to do with my wood...LOL
if you are in a recreational legal state or area there are quite a few edible products available from either Sativa or Indica strains. It can come in liquid, capsule, gummies, even like breath mints. Also in the last few years there has been an increase in alternative cannabinoid solutions. THCo, THCa, HHC, to name a few. The US Farm Bill has opened up the market and what's called Altnoids are becoming popular. The caveat with edibles it takes a little time, a few hours or so, for the effect to begin. Vaping is more instant. I dosed up the other day feeling pretty good. A few hours later I was horny as hell. Took care of that and when I hit the climax it was real intense. Felt absolutely wonderful the whole time.
You can't beat the instant effect smoke or vape has, but I just can't handle the smoke.. I use the delta-8 gummies that are hemp derived and legal for sale here. 25mg and two hours, gives a nice warm horney buzz....good with a drink or two. There's some delta-9's available now, but haven't gotten there yet..
There are some interesting loop holes in the USFB that many states failed to see. One is the availability of solutions high in THC in some form. They can give you a real good buzz, are psychoactive, and through the loophole, are legal to possess and consume. (For now)
Weed always made me horny and enhanced my orgasm. When I was married to my first wife and living in Japan (she was Japanese), she turned out to be a manipulative monster, and I tried to ease out of that relationship. I was living in Tokyo and she was in Osaka, but we got together ever weekend and while our marriage may have been falling apart our sex life was still healthy. Then I happened to meet this Filipina who was a TV actress in Tokyo, and I fell head over heels for her. Timing was bad because I was still married and so forth. But I could not pass her up. She became my mistress, and it so happens she was also in a bad marriage, so I became her lover. They used to say, the best sex is sex with a mistress, and I certainly thought that was so. The forbidden fruit was incredible. Long story short, my first wife found out about my mistress and that ended my first marriage (mainly because I could not give up my Filipina mistress---my first wife actually gave me permission to have mistresses as long as it wasn't her.) My first wife also tracked down her husband and ended that relationship which made it possible for me to marry her, and we are still together to this day. However, before any of that happened, we also discovered that having sex after her husband had been with her was an even more exciting level of ecstasy. (She was very jeapous so it didn't work the other way--having sex after I had been with my wife, though I found that enjoyable too.) After we got married and a few years passed, we began to find that things were getting a bit mundane. We had such an incredible time, neither of us wanted sex to become mundane. So we talked about sharing, which has always turned me on (in fact I dated a college girl when I was in high school and she shared me with her friends, which really got her off), and, because guys everywhere wanted to get into her panties, it wasn't long before we were able to start down that path. I would often compare having sex with her after she has satisfied another man, as a level of excitement and an orgasm similar to having sex on weed. It may not be quite the same, but it is certainly very intense and incredibly sensual. Eventually we moved to the States and she took on a regular lover (She was always too jealous to share me, but in later years I got to enjoy that as well, though she would get jealous and I don't think she enjoyed it as much as I did after she was with a lover, so for most of our relationship, it was her that was shared). After a couple of years she had some relatives, an aunt and uncle, that lived on the east coast, and they were both killed in a car accident. She had to go to the funeral but I was extremely busy at work and I told her I couldn't go. This would have been her first time to travel alone since we got together. She said she needed someone with her and asked if she could take her lover. I was excited by the idea, but it would be very frustrating for me because I would want to have her after she was with him. So we talked aboiut it and decided that she could bring him if I listened in while they made love. I showed her how she could do it discretely and we changed the name of my phone number to 'CHARGING' so he would think that she was just charging her phone if he saw it. (He did not like the idea of sharing.) The first night was incredible listening to them, but I was still frustrated. The next morning she called me again and I listened which was again very hot but left me frustrated and late for work. The next day I contacted a friend who loved making brownies with weed. She had some, which I picked up, and I was able to time taking them based on when my wife told me they were leaving a restaurant and when they would be at the hotel. So I ate a brownie about 40 minutes before they started, and it worked perfect. It was as if I was in the room with them, and I knew exactly what was happening, what he was feeling, what she was doing. It was so incredible to listen to on weed. I came so hard when she came. And then when he came---she loves the feel of a man cumming inside of her, and during the whole time I have known her, she has never allowed a partner to use a condom---she has a way of moaning with each contraction she feels. So I heard him grunt and I heard her moans and it wasn't long after this that I came again. She was there for another 5 days, so each night I would take a brownie, and it was as if I was there with them. They spent their last day at the hotel and I called in sick to the office and spent the day high and horny and listening in to their lovemaking--as if I was right there in the room with them.
That's wild, I can totally imagine that scenario. It may be helping that I had some weed earlier. I have heard stories about Filipinas in general; reportedly they're not hung up like the tendency for western women to be and embrace the biological imperatives of our bodies and sexuality. This story reinforces that stereotypical belief.
On the surface, of course, they tend to have this constructed morality/modesty that one might quickly recognize to be based on catholicism. But then Philippine women will quickly joke about a poki or kiki or pekpek (Philippine words for pussy) in public showing that this veneer of modesty is not very deep. And there is sexual tension everywhere in the Philippines. I have found that all over Asia, women tend to be very interested in Western men, and there is very often a good deal of sexual tension. I worked in the stock market in Japan, and initially I worked in a Japanese brokerage office (the very first foreigner to do so as a broker, which I know because I was the first person working for a Japanese company to pass the brokers exam to be licensed. There was one foreigner before me and he worked for Merrill Lynch for a year or two). The office had 4 women working there. Everyone knew I was married. Three of them each tried numerous times to get me to take them out to a love hotel. (In retrospect, if I knew how my first marriage turned out, I would have taken them up on it.) One time on my lunch break I went to a coffee shop near my office I had not visited yet. The waitress was a Chinese girl that had moved to Japan. In the course of my eating lunch we talked about where I was from and so forth, and she told me that she had never been in bed with a foreigner. In subsequent visits, she would remind me of this and would ask me what I do on the weekends, or when I would have free time to meet her, and leave other hints. I know that if I go to a bar in Japan, and the mama-san or one of the hostesses asks if I would like to dance with her, that before the dance was done she will gently grope me, to see if its true about foreigners being bigger. (I would always make sure that I was hanging well so as not to disappoint them LOL!) I may be wrong, but experience tells me otherwise: I could walk into a room in Asia and immediately identify which girls like me, and then which of those girls I would likely get lucky right away with. But women in South East Asia are even more aggressive than many of the others. I would include Taiwan in this, but I haven't spent much time there so I can't really say for sure if they are as aggressive as Filipinas for example. And I was always with a wife there, but there was definitely an edge to the flirting and longing glances from the women there. My own theory about South East Asia, and particularly the Philippines is that they are closer in time to the sexual freedom of their indigenous ancestors. I think this is true all over the pacific. The hula dance may be a great show for tourists, but that is the sanitized version of how women would dance for their partners in nothing but a grass skirt in a quiet spot on the beach where the two of them chose to spend the evening. The ships logs and captain's and sailor's diaries of the early navies that sailed around the pacific make exciting reading if you want to learn about this sexual freedom. Even National Geographic---I remember an issue that talked about how sailors were searched before going to shore, because the native girls would have sex for any piece of iron (once they learned that they could get something in return for sleeping with a sailor, before that they just did it), and the ships were falling apart because all the men were taking the nails out. Unfortunately colonialism and its foot soldiers---the missionaries and priests---forced this Western morality upon these people. And I think it has led to a lot of dysfunction in these societies. In the Philippines for example, there is no divorce, and adultery is a criminal offense. If anyone thinks that you can regulate such things, I will tell you that in a total of about 5 years of living in the Philippines, I only know 2 people that I can confidently say, they are faithful to their significant other. Now if you are in a relationship with a Filipina, this does not mean that she won't be faithful to you. They are human after all and can make choices. I have a sister-in-law for example, who has been married to an American businessman for quite a few years. I have never seen the signs of infidelity in their relationship, and I assume that she is very faithful to him. And certainly a Filipina that was raised here in the states, or elsewhere abroad, works from a different cultural context. If anyone was getting into, or already in, a relationship with a Filipina or a Filipino, I think it would be important to understand this. First of all it provides a clue as to their tendency towards jealousy. But it also speaks towards the possibility of their straying. Monogamy is a social construct, I do believe that we are not naturally monogamous. We can certainly choose that, and for those who grew up in a culture where such morals have been around for many more centuries, we probably find it easier to choose monogamy than someone where such traditions are only 200 years old or less. As many Filipino men have told me, 'Man cannot survive on steak and potatoes alone every day, even if it is the best steak and potatoes.' How each individual handles this is up to them. But key to a successful relationship is trust, honesty, and respect, and understanding such cultural aspects is, in my opinion, very important. Filipinas do tend to be very in tune with their bodies and they know what they like. My wife has openly bragged to my friends about how Filipinas always keep their poki clean, and that is why they always smell so good. I don't know how true of a reason that is, but I do know from my limited exerience that Filipinas smell and taste incredible, and the smell is even in their sweat. (When we were dating in hot humid Japan, and even just embracing on the train, when I got home I could smell her sweat on my clothes, and I would get so turned on by that. I had shirts that I wouldn't wash until I could no longer smell her on them.)
These statements are so true of not only Fillipino or SE Asia women, but of most eastern Asian women. I had a Korean born FB years ago who was the sweetest tasting women. She had an Asian GF that we had a few threesomes with who also was clean and sweet. I've had sex with other Asian women, Japanese, Chinese, and Korean, and when compared to western women are more into what the man wants instead of what they want. IMO the culture in Asia is that way on the eastern side.
I wouldn't brag about my Japanese wife's abilities in bed, but she tried. She was no where near as active as my Filipina wife. My Filipina will wiggle and move around, its partly for my pleasure but also for hers. My Japanese wife would experiment and try different positions and so forth, but for some I still did most of the work. She preferred to lay back and then just shake her head back and forth when she came. When she was in the States she had no problem with wearing skimpy clothing and see through tops---I don't know if she did it for me, or she enjoyed it too, but I certainly enjoyed it. Then there was the time in Hawaii that she posed for a photographer on the balcony across from our hotel room in the nude. And we had sex in her car in Japan, my car in the states and a lot of other risky spots. There was a spot in the lower middle of her back and if I touched it just right--just barely run my fingers across it---it drove her nuts---in a good way. I was in an English pub with some friends that was known as a place for Japanese girls to meet foreigners and visa versa. I happened to see a friend's Japanese girlfriend. We got to talking about that spot and she said she didn't know about it. I reached up the back of her blouse and discovered that it had the same effect on her. Her reaction was mostly to lean back and so I stopped. She asked me to do it again, and this time she grabbed a hold of me tight, put her head on my shoulder and moaned. The rest of the time my friends and I were there, drinking a couple of beers, she stayed next to me holding my arm. Some of them also knew my friend, her boyfriend. They jokingly asked me what I was going to tell him. I responded, not a word. After we finished our beers, I told her I had to leave. She asked me to touch her one last time. She held me tight and moaned again. She then kissed me on the cheek and said thank you. But my Japanese wife tried to please me in other ways which I probably took for granted. When we first came to the States, and we were at my parent's house, my mom saw her standing outside the bathroom door with a towel, while I took a shower. She told her that I would probably be a while so she could use another bathroom for a shower. She told her, No I'm just waiting to dry his hair. My mom explained that she doesn't need to do that in America. I don't think I would have known she was waiting there like that if my mom hadn't pointed it out. I think that there are a number of women around the world that are incredibly feminine. I don't mean subservient, in fact, their immense femininess (or how ever you want to say it) could make guys do anything for them. Some French women are the epitome of this. Asian women are definitely so----but again, South East Asian women are the most skilled at this. My Japanese wife never tried weed. My Filipina wife tired some butter once and she did not like it. As I have written elsewhere, she is a healer, and when she got high she could see too many spirits around. She didn't like it. But she can lose all her inhibitions on alcohol. I have always wanted to try it on other Japanese girls. It never seemed to work on my Filipina wife. I have been with some other Japanese girls but that was before I married my first wife, and before I found that sweet spot.