Damn right you wouldn't. If it were any other way there is the infinite possibility that we might not even exist. I like things the way they are too.
i believe people connected by a subconscious frequency. certain [like minded] groups are on one frequency while there are other people are on another frenquency. how deep it goes, idk. is it a matter of similar souls like their kind, or is it just minds thinking in preprogrammed ways. like that saying "great minds think alike" or "an idiot here is an idiot there"