Watching your partner having sex with others.

From username I guess you are ok with this. Be sure to keep all informed if you decide to explore farther.

 

I am considering it yes, took several months of my husband and I talking about it to get to this point. There is a guy I have in mind who I messaged last night about it and he wants to reach out to my husband first, he is a mutual friend of ours

 

When we started girlfriend kind of ruled out friends. probably none she was attracted to. Plus a couple of her girlfriends had told her about a guy she was interested in. We started before we were married. and she wanted to try other men. We did soft swing with another couple, but took our time, and talked about it. I traveled for my work, so we had open relationship.

 

Ah! That is very interesting, thank you for sharing. Several people had recommended that it should be a friend, at least for the first time, so it is someone both my husband and I are comfortable with. But I can also see how that might not be a great idea

 

Rebecca, My wife and I do it often. It can be intoxicatingly erotic. We absolutely love same room sex with others.

 

We swapped with friends when we were younger and liked to party. We moved for work every 4-5 years so we’ve long since lost contact with those friends. Now we swap with strangers only rather than our current friends. Don’t want to risk the friendship or career reputation. We have become very good friends with one couple we swap with.

 

Thank you for sharing, this is definitely advice I need to consider carefully

 

So if it happens have you decided or thought about what you want to do? Just you and your friend while you husband watch’s or both taking care of you?

 

In your conversations, did he ever say why he wanted to see you with another man?

 

Yes, he said he knows he never truly satisfied me sexually. Although I never gave him any reason to think that, even if he was right

He also is very small and he is very insecure about that. It’s led him to completely avoid any intimacy. I’ve tried so hard to help him, we’ve even gone to counseling but it isn’t helping.

 

He should not feel bad many women are the same way. You should be happy he wants you to explore and find sexual satisfaction. My size is better than average, and it was my girlfriend who told me she wanted to try big. She knew I had other women so she wanted to experience other men. I won't give all details, but all worked out good. If anything it was a wake up call for both of us. After a couple of years together couples can take each other for granted. And it spiced up our sex life and revived it.

 

If it is so bad he’s avoiding intimacy, maybe surgery or implants may help him.

 

He looked into that at one point, insurance wouldn’t cover it and the cost was just not reasonable

 

You fucking his friends seems unlikely to make him feel better about this deficiency. Has he shopped around to see what surgery might cost in other places?

 

I saw some of my partners (of both sexes) having sex with other people, it was very exciting!

 

Do you think you would enjoy having your husband watch you having sex with another man? Or would you enjoy doing spit-roasting threesomes with your husband and another guy?

 

We both agreed that the first time or two would be best if he wasn’t there.

At some point I would love to be with two men

 

A MFM would be fun I think

 

My wife wanted to be alone first time. since she had never gone all the way with another man. She really didn't want anyone watching. We were at a small party and after they headed off to a bedroom, it seemed like an eternity before they returned. I had heard about the guy's sexual abilities. She told me about it as we drove home that night. It wasn't long after that we had a mfm threesome. Can I assume you were with other men before your husband?

 

No, he was my first sexual partner. I fooled around with a couple of guys before him but never slept with them