Watching porn during a BJ?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by 4lyssa, Aug 19, 2019.

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Am I being too sensitive?

Poll closed Aug 21, 2019.
  1. Yes, chill

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  2. No that's messed up

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  1. 4lyssa

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    So I've always been cool with watching porn every now and then with my boyfriend while foreplaying and setting the mood or whatever, but lately he'll just put it on the TV every time if we're in the living room or on the phone in the bedroom while I'm going down on him. I notice when I look up at him that he's not paying any attention to me but at the TV screen or phone, watching a chick give a BJ. I'm typically not the jealous type, especially when it comes to porn, but I feel a little offended. Am I being too sensitive??
     
  2. Deejay06

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    Not to sure I do feel yes he should be looking at u most of the time but nothing wrong if he glances up at the porn on the tv maybe you should slick on his balls harder or maybe lick close to his asshole get his attention like that make it different for him u know
     
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  3. Deejay06

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    Can I ask how long have y’all been together
     
  4. 4lyssa

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    A little over 6 months.
     
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  5. Deejay06

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    Pm me
     
  6. Friendly10

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    How often do you give him head is he watching every time. If he is watching porn all the time then yes I would say thats a problem. How about you put on a show for him have him watch you maybe record you. Talk dirty while to him tell him to watch you.it may be just me but if I've only been with someone for six months I would want to watch them over porn.
     
  7. Angela36

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    I don't see the problem. But maybe he does, so he watches porn. Have you asked him why he's not watching yiou? You could be doing something wrong.
     
  8. Deejay06

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    That true to
     
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  9. Deejay06

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    I asked her if he ever finish when she giving him a blowjob no answer
     
  10. Angela36

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    It probably depends on what movie he's watching.
     
  11. Deejay06

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    True I think he wants her to do it like a porn star because porn starts do some wild stuff
     
  12. Angela36

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    Really? A great blowjob doesn't take an Olympic gymnast. Just someone who knows what she's doing. Like polishing nails (and many, many other things), practice makes perfect.
     
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    Pm me
     
  14. 4lyssa

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    I would say 80% of the time, that's how we initiate, giving oral to each other and teasing/foreplay. The other 20% is after a long day and we're tired but just want to have sex. Watching porn together has been a more recent thing, but its becoming an everytime thing. He says I'm good at it and he's close every time and there have been several times where he does finish in my mouth but maybe I need to spice things up a bit, like you said. It's hard to compete with porn stars that overexaggerate and look so cheesy doing it.. but hey, he's obviously into it if he's always watching it. Thanks for your input!
     
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  15. 4lyssa

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    I think he wants to see me get more "nasty" like the porn stars. I guess I'll try that.
     
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  16. Deejay06

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    A lot of men want their women to act like porn stars talk to him in a sexy voice and ask him how he wants it u be surprise what he will say and just try it and I’m sure u will make him bust fast
     
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  17. 4lyssa

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    The answer is yes, he has finished in my mouth on multiple occasions but usually we stop when he gets really close so I can get my pleasure on too.
     
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  18. Deejay06

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    Well that a good thing then
     
  19. Deejay06

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    Well I think u have all the right ideas to change it up I think you will be ok your a beautiful women so u have a lot going for u if you need anything just ask there are a lot of ppl here that can help
     
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    If you're comfortable being a bit more "nasty" like a porn star then go for it. Sometimes I pretend that I'm putting on a show for more than just him and it really turns me on
     
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