Was your SO the best sex you ever had?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Joboo6, Feb 18, 2019.

  1. Joboo6

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    I wondered about this since I remember wanting to be the best my wife ever experienced. Probably no way I was, since she was nowhere near the best I had been with. But to qualify that I had been with many more diffent women than most guys. Several of them were just unbelievably talented in bed. My wife didn’t and never did like giving oral, on the other hand she loved receiving.
    I believe she has been with at least twice as many as she admits which is 5 including me, we started dating when she was 23.
     
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  2. Deidre

    Deidre Follow thy heart

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    I’d say yes because for me, I need to be filled with love and knowing that he is filled with love for me, makes sex with him, the best. With love also comes trust. I have to trust, if the sex is to be good at all. And I trust him completely.
     
  3. lmm00

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    I was very inexperienced when I met my husband so yes, he’s the best I’ve had. Although there’s no competition so that’s kind of cheating. Lol.

    From talking to other women though I’d say he seems to be pretty good at what he does.
     
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    Irminsul Valkyrie

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  5. Gene London

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    My HS girlfriend was the worst but after college I traveled a lot internationally before I was married with many trips to the orient. Almost everywhere I went there was opportunities and since I was not in a relationship there was no reason not to partake. Someone new is always intense and exciting especially in a foreign land so I had a lot of different women. In Korea it was like I was a superhero, women were fascinated by American men and were very curious. I was there for six weeks and was with a women any night I wanted to. I was young at the time and up to that point I was fairly inexperienced but still had a lot of fun.

    Several years later I met my wife and when we first slept together I knew she was the one for me. We made love, nodded off then woke up for another round several times. I knew I could never be with another woman after that night.
     
  6. YouCanTrustMe

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    I’d have to say the best was a GF when I was 19. I met my wife later that year and she has nearly reached that level over the course of our marriage. Honest question, honest answer.
     
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  7. Visexual

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    When my wife of 47 years and I were still having sex, she was pretty good. But the best was a girl from my high school. I liked her OK but never loved her. She lied about being pregnant to get me to marry her. Even with that, I have to say that I enjoyed the two years we were married for the sex. Damn, she was not only good looking, she was a sex machine.
     
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  8. CrazyGuy

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    My best was my last ex fiance.

    Main reason, she was a total proud slut. Loved gangbanging her, and loved kissing and going down on her, even if 4 other guys came inside her. She also loved having me be tied down and dominated by men, which i must say i enjoyed immensely.

    My current SO, is not into anything more than a DP, and any action involving me taking dick is without her.
     
  9. Barry Mandelay

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    I've had so many sexual encounters in my life it is hard to judge. Many times during our sex life my SO and I engaged in torrid sex. But then my first partner, the one I lost my virginity to, showed me so much about me and women sexually the experience ranks right up there. Then there are other women I have encountered where on occasion sex with them was very memorable. So the best sex is how you define it. Be it one encounter or how the partner provides continually. I have to say that with my SO there was no drama leading up to nor following. But that was after we became totally intimate in every aspect of our lives. That in itself made sex with her fantastic most of the time. But as I said earlier my first partner provided some of the best sex in my young days. Plus the occasional hook up that turned out to be awesome makes giving a definitive answer difficult.
     
  10. Friendly10

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    I've been with women that was great an some that was real bad.But my ex was out of this world.
    She had done porn for a couple of years way back before we meet an when we had sex it was like Bing in a porn
    Best sex hands down I ever had . The sex was so good I didn't notice she was crazy an after 8 years
    I couldn't take it anymore but the sex was still wow an I miss the sex alot..
     
  11. Lovnflman

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    It's difficult to quantify BEST. A former live in GF was the best to this point in my life. Yeah, she had been around and experienced, but she settled down with me and taught me so much about sex. She was always horny and multi orgasmic.
    My wife was somewhat reserved when we had our first date. A conservative single mom. That night I had the best sex of my life.....twice! It continued for years, and sadly has slowed down to basically sexless 20+ years later. How I miss those early years.
     
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    The best for the long run. I had a few flings where the sex was great, but as a man the first time, with a new woman, is always great. Like a new toy.
     
  13. GypsyHolly83

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    Fun question. For me, yes. We were actually together a long time ago and it ended up being distance that split us up when I moved to further my education in my mid 20s. I always felt a real soul-soul connection with him and no one else came even close to that level. Maybe that’s why neither of us ever married and then reconnected later in life. But to the question at hand, I’ve never enjoyed having sex more than when I’ve been with Jude. We just connect on every level and it makes sex fun, comfortable, intimate. :) I get butterflies thinking of when we first got back together and did it for the first time again.
     
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    yeah... we're really sexually compatible. we're into the same kinks, and we communicate with respect and love. and hes gorgeous. it's never boring.
     
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    The best and only one I have been with. Last week, I heard from a mutual friend that one of her former lovers still says she is the best by far that he ever had, so I'll take his opinion as the truth.
     
  16. JDsPrincess

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    Without a doubt!! My current partener is very experienced in the bedroom (as am i) and we are very sexually compatible ao have mind blowing sex. Ive had amazing sex with past partners too but we have a connection like I've never experienced before, out of this world both physically and emotionally!!!
     
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    No, the wife isn't the best. I guess that all of the cares and worries get you.
    there was a girl Bonnie. she was fantastic, a porn star in bed, open, vocal.
     
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  18. buzzgunner

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    Actually, the best sex I ever had was the last girl friend I had just before I met my wife. We (the girl friend and I) were together for just over half a year. What made her the best was that she wanted to fuck ALL THE TIME! If we didn't fuck at least once a day, it seemed like she'd go into withdrawal. Then there were her orgasms. She came super-hard. she'd start cumming within seconds of me entering her and she'd keep cumming until I finally came inside her. In fact, some of the time, she'd cum so hard that she'd pass out. After this happened the first couple of times, she told me (in no uncertain terms) that she wanted me to keep fucking her when that happening, so that she'd feel me pounding her when she woke up! Fun times!
     
  19. Angela36

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    Yep. It was absolutely amazing. If he wasn't such an a$$hole, I'd be dying to relive that part of my life. The problem with great sex is that once you've had a lot of it, the bar is pretty high for all subsequent encounters.
     
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  20. Panama Jack

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    I am lucky. As the saying goes, “Three times is the charm”. I been married 3 times and the wife I have now is no doubt the best sex partner for me. We are evenly matched in talent and sexual desire. After twenty years she is still a great bang and a body to match. She is old school and knows just how to please me.
     
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