Was your first time going down awkward?

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  1. PhotoDude

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    You tend to hear a lot of stories about how awkward can be when you go down on a partner for the first time. The first time my wife gave me oral, it was her first time ever. I was her first everything. Later, after she was finished, I asked her how awkward it was for her. She told not it wasn't awkward at all. That it felt natural to her.

    Thinking back, I tried to remember the first time I went down on a girl. It was 14 years ago, when I was 16. It ended up happening at my High School, in the photography dark room. I was messing around with this girl from my French Class. It was a half-day, and I had planned to go to the dark room to work on a project. I was cool with the photography teacher, and I could come in after class and work. I could stay as long as I wanted, so long as locked up.

    The girl, who we will call "M", and I had made plans to goof around in the dark room. To make a long story short, I got her naked and on her knees. After she was done with me, I thought it only fair to return the favorite. Even though it was my first time, it felt natural to me. Looking back, I know I was terrible at it, but it still felt natural.

    So my question is, was your first time going down on someone awkward for you, or did it feel natural to you?
     
  2. mudlife73

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    I was in a relationship for about a year and back then the girls/woman didn't trim too much and this one had a very strong smell. She wouldn't go down on me and we very freaked out when I tried to go down on her.

    So the next relationship I asked her to go down on me and she told me that she would return the favour so I give and she gives....well we were both firsts at everything and we spent a lot of time with our heads in each others crotch area.

    She wasn't afraid to move my head here or there and she made sure that I told her what she did wrong too. She didn't have much of an upper lip but she got me a few times with her teeth but still worth it.

    She loved giving and she really loved receiving, we couldn't coordinate 69 back then. Once I popped her cherry we were like bunny rabbits.

    Her mom hated me because she knew that I took her flower but that was a hell of a summer.

    I love to go down on a woman and could never have a relationship with a woman without it.
     
  3. MindControlledShepple

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    def awkward. not cuz I was bad, well I prlly was, it was more of being shy then awkward really
     
  4. silk896

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    just happened. he sort of waved it around and sugested I sucked it.
    I knew it happened - so I did.
    Incredibly underwhelming.

    The first time I let a guy cum in my mouth (a long time after the above experience) I felt disappointed. It was supposed to be so fabulously wonderful. I got a mouthful of yucky slime, he groaned a bit, wiped his dick and went for a pee!!
    But again, it just happened. No real problems actually "doing it."
     
  5. expanse

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    I was somewhat drunk my first time. It seemed natural though, so it wasn't awkward for me.
     
  6. rollingalong

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    i was an expert from the get go..... a natural....a cunnilinguist


    but if you were to ask gr 9 girl who's name i've forgotten she will likely say i had no fucking clue what i was doing
     
  7. terracotta27

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    no, it was great. I was not really sure how to pleasure her but once I got down there I was intoxicated and her reactions taught me want pleasured her and what didn't. I loved it and have ever since
     
  8. Irminsul

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    I remember like a feeling of faintness in my head and severe head spinning. Not awkward though. Honestly all that really tells me is how much I thought of her.
     
  9. suxntx

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    My first time sucking cock and my first time eating pussy seemed quite natural to me.
     
  10. Andy Schumer

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    First time was with my first GF.
    I did sort of okay. She enjoyed having it done but nothing big happened. That was on her birthday and she said she wanted me to eat her out.
     
  11. LowHangers

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    My first time going down on a woman and eating her pussy felt natural to me but not so natural for her as it was obvious I didn't have a clue what I was doing but bless her heart she stopped me and instructed me on what to do and how to do it so it was a better experience for her. My first time going down on a guy was totally natural and it was obvious to him that I was born to suck cock as he stated it several times during the BJ.
     
  12. Upnorthguy

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    My first time going down on a girl was pure bliss. I had watched a fair amount of porn movies and had a pretty good idea of what to do. Plus she tasted fricken fantastic! Loved going down on that girl. Wouldn't do it now though.... she didn't age well. Lol
     
  13. BCG420

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    Incredibly awkward, I was very nervous as was she.

    She kept wiggling around, moving her legs I had no idea if I should be kissing, licking use my fingers etc. my face and nose was covered with her juices.
     
  14. Joboo6

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    She and I were 17 and it was both of our‘s first time, it was a summer fling. She was more than willing to guide me in this adventure so it wasn’t awkward. We were able to spend hours in bed exploring each other since her aunt and uncle were at work. It was the best sexual learning experience I could have ever had, I learned how to make her cum by piv and oral. For her to have 3-4 orgasms was common and I learned to control my ejaculation as well.
     
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  15. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

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    No I was pretty young but I sucked it like I owned it. It was fun and he came in my mouth and I came in his. We did it every sunday for 3 to 4 years.
     
  16. olderndirt

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    It was a bit awkward because it was a first for both of us. She had sex with several men before she had sex with me, but none of them went down on her. After a few weeks of marriage and helpful advice from a best-selling sex advice book, I convinced her that both of us would enjoy it. We did it, and she was hooked.,
     
  17. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

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    After giving head to a guy many timesas a kid I then went down on my first girlfriend. I really enjoyed it but there was something missing. It was a different experience but it was more like licl lick lick etc rather than devower and get a prize. Eating a pussy is kinda anti climactic but the girls love it and so do I in a way.
     
  18. Twogigahz

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    I didn't have a clue, but she sure made a fast learner out of me.
     
  19. reese1965

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    My first time I really didn't know what I was doing, but I'm a fast learner.
     
  20. Angela36

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    I find it hard to believe it wasn't just a little bit awkward for everyone. Fun, yes. But still awkward.
     

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