Quick question for you all. Do any of you lose interest in sucking or getting fucked if you cum first? I usually cum last but sometimes I get off first. There have been a few times, not always, that instead of enjoying having his cock in my mouth I’d rather just get him to shoot his load so the “job” will be finished. Didn’t know if this is just me or others.
A lot of bi guys are done when they cum - some bi guys can't get far enough away from their partner after they've cum... that's why some guys are like "don't make me cum yet - I want this to last". No, you are not alone on this. It's pretty common. I try to be a good sport and keep going if I've cum first - sometimes I'd almost wish I don't cum because I can't continue enthusiastically after I've shot my load. Depends on the guy I'm with and the depth of my relationship with him, to be honest.
I’ve been with guys that have completely lost interest in making me cum if they cum first and it had always puzzled me. I have always wanted to continue and have my partner cum too if I blow first. It’s disappointing when it happens because when receiving a blowjob it usually takes me a while to cum and if the guy cums first then I’m left unsatisfied.
I've known several guys like that. As for me, I enjoy sucking even after I cum, and most guys I have met enjoy me continuing to suck them after they have cum in my mouth.
I guess I've been lucky to only have this happen once, and I've partnered up with at least 45 different men in my lifetime. The other approx. 35 guys I'd been with was just me sucking them off.
I'm fine with just sucking a guy off. Yeah, I love to be sucked and 69, but just sucking a dude is great.
The only group setting I've been in, I think I left after cumming? But I had been there a good while already. I can't remember if I or the other guy came first, as we both did each other. I had sucked 3 guys, without cumming in my mouth, as I asked them not to. I didn't cum in the last guys mouth. I left the hotel party with him, because he was leaving to exchange emails, try more later with him. But he ghosted my emails, which was with his full nam in it. So, I don't know for sure how much the fact I came influenced being ready to leave, vs a couple other things happening I didn't like, vs just being ready to go home? In terms of swallowing my own, I am more eager to while watching porn and stroking, but less inclined after I have cum.
I always get my partner off first and then suck him while I get off. But, even after I cum, I'm usually ready for another round. I'd love to suck him hard enough to fuck me again but it never happens. I'd be happy even if he could cum while I'm sucking him but they're always done for the day.
Haven't had the pleasure of being fucked yet but I've said this before I think if I got with a guy he would have to do me first because I might lose interest after I've done my load. I think if a guy blew me I'd be happy with that and happy to leave. If I'm gonna go down on him I think I'd have to go first before I get cold feet. It's just me, and I know it. Even with a woman I'm like I can lose the interest and roll over. Wish I had more in me but maybe in the right setting I would go again. Same as I like anal play but I haven't got hard while being penetrated but may I could done right.
Losing interest after cumming is an issue I've dealt with. I found that pushing through the initial lack of interest and staying involved can be a big turn on. After cumming and losing my erection the best thing to do is sucking a cock or boobs, being stroked despite having just cum is a great way to get horny all over again.
