I am happily married, but I want to have sex with other men. I'm not sure where this urge is coming from. We have been married for 5 years now and I never before considered sleeping with another man ever. Now though I feel like it will happen at some point or another even if I try to steer clear. Some background about me first. I have only ever been with one man. I married when i was 20. Had my daughters at 23 and 24 and we do not plan on having anymore children. As far as society is concerned we are meant to be in monogamous relationships. The urge to sleep with other men feels wrong and i feel guilty even thinking about it sometimes. I don't have anyone to really talk to about this so I'm trying here for some insight into my issue. My husband is totally ok with me having sex with other men as long as I'm coming home to him. Which I will because I love the man more than anything and want to stay with him. I just kinda feel like I'll be missing something if I never try out something different. Like I said earlier I really don't know where all this is coming from. Is this a normal way for people to feel? And should I go for it?
it is a commen thing, i would suggest going over it with your hubby and see what he thinks, talk about maybe bringing in a 3rd playmate first. i have expierince with being the third person in those situations, most times the husband watched or played a little bit too which is great if he wants to explore a little too.
Ellyzi, You say husband is alright with it, so you must have talked it over with him. My gf was the same, she had never been with another man. She told me early in our relationship, she was interested in being with other men. I was 2 years older, and had several experiences with other women. We started an open realionship, and both had sex with other people, and even done some swinging. The thing is we did this, before any family. Not saying you having children, can be a problem. But for us I was glad we did it early, before we made any comments. I think the first night, she was with another man she felt a bit of guilt, but enjoyed the sex. So after that, she had no problem having casual sex, and trying different things.
