Wanting to be more kinky in a relationship

I have always been a freak and my girl is def not shy but I wanted to know if anyone had any advice to help really loosen her up and more of a freak. Thanks!

 

Talk to her and don't push. It'll either happen or it won't.

 

I mean there’s moments where she does show a kinky side but I want more

 

Right, so talk to her about it. Tell her you liked what she was doing (every partner I've ever known eats that up!) Ask her if she's interested in expanding her interests a little more. If she says "yes", find out what interests her and how far she'll go. OTOH, if she says "no", well, that's the end of it.

 

Yeah she eats it up when I tell her how good she is at giving head. Got to the point where she loves doing it!

 

If you really want a enjoyable night out. Find a fetish workshop. It’s so much fun and enlightening. Doesn’t mean you have to do any of it, but it sure will enlighten both of you to another side of sexuality.

 

Never heard of that!

 

Or just kneel down and kiss her bare feet in front of a bunch of your mutual friends.

 

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Discuss it. One of my girlfriends was super shy at first. But when I started talking freely to her about all the sexy stuff I love, it appeared she wanted to try most of it.

 

Try bringing it up while in the midst of a hot session . Let her know how good she is at whatever and others deserve to find out . You'll most likely have to do that a number of times . You can find out if she's on board with the idea based on her reactions .
In my case it was several years before the idea took hold but then............unbelievable !!!