I'm happily married but want to have my first bi experience. Not really sure the best way to go but I want to stay away from CL. I' like to meet others of like age and and build.
Does your wife know about this idea? If not, are looking for ways to tell her as well? If she's into it, maybe consider one of her friends. Makes her comfortable, which helps make you comfortable. Unless she's into one of yours. Obviously, you'd have to settle whether it's 3-way or a swinging couples thing. My advice will always be to lean towards your partners preference, where possible. But that's not the answer for everyone.
Just dive in a do it, I have never heard from a guy who didn't like it. It may not rock your world, but you will enjoy it.
I wouldn't recommend cheating on your wife with another man. I did so for a couple decades and always regretted it but never confessed. We divorced for other reasons after 25 years. My present wife has been a different situation all together. I told her I have sucked cock in my past and would enjoy doing so again but with her present. She was game and said it really turned her on to see me sucking another mans cock and she joined in and had two cocks pleasuring her and each other.