Want to play out rape fantasy w a stranger on Craigslist

I feel really weird (conflicted?) about this. But I have seen there are men on Craigslist that want to do rape fantasy, and am really into this. I have NEVER done anything like this. I have only had sex with my late husband for about 10 years, he passed away 6 months ago, and maybe this is some weird grief thing?

But the idea is really really turning me on. I wouldn't want to have any involvement with this person outside of it. I am very 'normal' kind of vanilla, and this is way crazy (to me at least) out of frame for anything I've ever done. And the idea of meeting doing casual encounters has always kind of freaked me out, and ive been/am kinda judgy about it. I would tell absolutely NO ONE, this would be a take it to the grave sort of thing.

I would want to make sure a condom, establish boundaries, maybe a verified STD test? No pain, hitting, bruises, scat, piss ewww. Just restraint, and force.

Also, of course kinda worried about safety. That would be obviously pretty risky.

I dunno is this totally insane? Is this totally sick in the head? Has anyone else ever done anything like this? Anyone with experience with casual encounters know anything about how to maintain safty? it's just so tempting for some reason.

So conflicted...

 

There was another thread awhile back that had a topic similar as yours. My advice to you is not live this fantasy out with a complete stranger. This is something you should experience with someone you trust, and will know when too much is too much, and have enough respect for you to listen when you say "stop".

 

Yes this is totally insane. There is no way to gauruntee your safety, neither physically or from disease. A verified STD test is totally useless.

 

This seems like a common fantasy for women. I've had a few women talk about it. It's not something I really liked. As a guy I would not do this with a male you do not know well. It's something that requires a lot of trust and respect even though I guess the role play is that none of that is there.

 

Especially if the condom breaks....(POW!!!)

 

Just remember, if it goes too far, you can't cry rape!
You have said it on the internet..
Rape is a serious thing.. are you sure it's not a bit of BDSM your fantasising about? If so, don't get them mixed up, all you don't want to do, is part of rape!

 

She actually wants to get "raped". Tied down and butt raped.

 

Bloody stupid then..

 

If she’s raped she can most definitely cry rape. But I get the warning that she’s putting her safety in the hands of a total stranger

 

I think it's sly on the guy that fulfills her fantasy, doing her a favour then ending up in court, life ruined because he did something she didn't want...

Then you wonder why guys say it's a lot of women's fantasy's!

Tsk!

 

If he rapes her his life should be ruined

 

But not if he is doing it for her!! What she wants..

It's like going with a prostitute then coming away with aids..

Who's fault is it?

 

I agree its a terrible Fantasy to Admit publicly to having Because of the Poor women that this has happened to !
In fact TBH I am having trouble putting into words how I feel about it !!
Just wrong

 

Absolutely nothing about this sounds like a good idea.

Plus, I've always found this particular fantasy to be disrespectful and in poor taste. What to you will be a fun thrill (if you're lucky) is actually a living nightmare that has ruined the lives of many women. Making a kink out of a felony has always troubled me.

 

My girlfriend has a rape fantasy to an extent. I'm not necessarily into raping anyone, but I could do a pretend "rape" if she really wanted me to. BUT, that's because she and I have been in a relationship for a long time, and we trust each other. You need to find a partner who you trust with all your might. Then, I think I could see this working. But I somehow doubt like a mofo you can find a partner like that on Craigslist, at least not right away.

 

Just for some perspective, I don't actually want to be raped. And I think real rape is awful. This would be consensual "rape". It's a very common fantasy among women. Why Do Women Have Rape Fantasies?

It's more about power Dynamics. So don't take it so personally. People have all types of weird fantasy and as long as it's not hurting anyone you need not get offended.

That being said, yeah this probably is a horrible idea. I guess the stranger aspect adds to the fantasy, but is undoubtedly dangerous. But wouldn't any 'casual encounter' be just as dangerous? Does the rape fantasy aspect of it make it more dangerous?

And I suppose most casual encounters are m4m would would be inherently safer. And I doubt very many actual women do this?

But then prostitutes do it all the time? (I don't want to be a prostitue just an example about safety) But yeah, I guess that is a dangerous profession. But some make pretty good livings doing that.

But I'm just too horney for my own good right now. Lol maybe I'll just ask to do anonymous online chat and share pictures with someone with same fantasy instead. Seems like a good middle ground.

I'm just gonna have to masturbate this away. Haha

 

I think the only way you could accomplish this would be if you had a trusted friend who had a trusted friend...but you don't want anyone to know so there goes that theory.

 

Fucks wrong with cunts.

 

Oh get over yourself. Why Do Women Have Rape Fantasies?